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Originally Posted by OzzyRules
You are taking a scenario that is way beyond anything I have been writing about. I agree with you, but it just doesn't apply to what I have been talking about.
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It certainly might. It's not like this is exactly an uncommon scenario. The "creepy person" comes onto someone, she refuses, he decides it's her fault, he starts stalking her, perhaps he harms her. It happens every day and it starts somewhere. Sometimes, it starts just where you're talking about
: the unwanted come-on, the blame on the victim. Then things progress and not in a good way.
So there is very very good reason NOT to encourage such an association. Okay, maybe the person won't turn out to be a stalker, or worse. But maybe he will turn out to be one of these things. It is the SMART thing to do to NOT encourage such an association as a person can not always tell who's going to fly off the handle and start stalking. If we did, such things would never happen; we'd always know when to nip them in the bud. We don't.
My advice is sound. I say to anyone reading this, DO NOT continue such an association. Don't be mean, but don't feel guilty for a minute for cutting the association off. If the person needs help,
you can not be the one to do the helping. And as you can see from the OP's assertions, likely as not, the perpetrator will think you led him on, which can make things get even scarier.
Let people who need help, get the proper help. You are not the proper help and you have no "moral" (as the OP states) obligation to associate with someone who makes you feel creeped out or scared.