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Old 06-25-2014, 01:22 PM
 
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I may be the only one person who understands your situation. I am in the middle of a divorce process from an abusive man. I have two kids, and I am dating a single man (a wonderful and kind-hearted one). He knows I'm getting divorce, but I'm still legally married to another man. No other words can explain how much I love my boyfriend. He gives me hope and joy. Why would people be so judging to see us happy?
I know God hates divorce or adultery. But only us know the right thing to do for ourself. I keep reminding myself that I am adult enough to not let any other's opinion (who tries to put us down) running our life.
God knows what is in your heart and her heart. Just do what you believe is right. I just want you to know that you are not alone, and there is someone 110% understands your situation.
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Old 06-25-2014, 04:11 PM
 
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Any thought?

Suppose you were a single man in that situation, what would you do?

I'd get out of that situation. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't have been involved in the first place.
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Old 06-25-2014, 04:20 PM
 
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Only desperate men date married women
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Old 07-29-2014, 02:17 AM
 
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I would tell her to marry me instead and let her make her decision. If she decided to stay married, then I would accept it and go on with my life without her in it anymore.
I totally agree with you. According to me it is good to date any married women. If I really want to live with her then I propose her for marriage.
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Old 07-29-2014, 06:27 AM
 
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Let me put it in this way, the lady you love happens to be married with a kid.
I had a fling (it wasn't dating, more like....fulfilling the biological need) with a married women with children and here husband found out.

Trust me, when he confronted me, it was an incredibly uncomfortable situation.

And, he will find out. This is his wife, and if they are having marital problems or whatever, it will come out and you'll have to deal with it. Not fun.
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Old 07-29-2014, 06:41 AM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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As long as you keep their pool clean I guess
=]

There's plenty of awesome single women out there, why mess with that?
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Old 07-29-2014, 01:11 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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Any thought?

Suppose you were a single man in that situation, what would you do?
It would depend on the situation and the circumstances, just looking at the surface of the issue is like judging a book by its cover and you know the old saying " Never Judge A Book By Its Cover".
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Old 07-29-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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Any thought?

Suppose you were a single man in that situation, what would you do?
If the women displays attributes that guys deem "quality..." Then most guys will give her a chance. But seeing how this is almost never the case, most will do the latter.

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Old 07-29-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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Only desperate men date married women
... and those with kids.
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Old 07-29-2014, 03:29 PM
 
Location: USA
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Oh please. I'd never do that but what you're saying is nonsense. We're weaker as a nation because it's a fascist oligarchy.
True. And they said gay marriage would ruin us, or unmarried couples having children. My neighbor and his wife are both in this situation and it has no effect on anyone but them. Yeah, I think they're crazy but they aren't hurting me.
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