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There are two sentences in the OP which are inaccurate and speak to their skewed perceptions:
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I don't know why people say women hate sex.
Who says this? Some 75 year old woman who is a religious fanatic? I don't think I've ever known anyone who ever said this or thought this. In my experience, women enjoy sex as much (or more) than men.
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Maybe because the way society perceive men as often using women for sex...
"Society" also perceives Kim Kardashian to be a raving beauty when that's obviously absurd.
In any case, who cares what "society" thinks? If you personally think you're just being used for sex, then that's on you and you need to get a new BF.
Need more information... How do you feel about your partner? What is the relationship status? How does he treat you? I have never felt this way, but I have always had great relationships with my partners.
And I don't mean hate sex. I don't know why people say women hate sex. I like the physical part of it, and I've been told that I'm great in bed. But it seems like I always feel bad emotionally after it. I'm very passionate and I give a lot, but after it I feel used, disgusted, closed off. I was not violated sexually as a kid so I don't understand why I feel this way about sex. Maybe because the way society perceive men as often using women for sex, and so I have to feel there's going to be an equal balance of emotional exchange? Anybody else feel this way or encountered women like this?
Stop having sex with people that don't really care about you. Sounds to me you are being used.
Maybe someone taught you unconsciously that you don't deserve good things and you need a therapist to 'expose the man behind the curtain'.
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so maybe it's just an hormonal reaction
Maybe because the way society perceive men as often using women for sex, and so I have to feel there's going to be an equal balance of emotional exchange? Anybody else feel this way or encountered women like this?
