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And I don't mean hate sex. I don't know why people say women hate sex. I like the physical part of it, and I've been told that I'm great in bed. But it seems like I always feel bad emotionally after it. I'm very passionate and I give a lot, but after it I feel used, disgusted, closed off. I was not violated sexually as a kid so I don't understand why I feel this way about sex. Maybe because the way society perceive men as often using women for sex, and so I have to feel there's going to be an equal balance of emotional exchange? Anybody else feel this way or encountered women like this?
Are you sleeping with someone that cares about you or makes you feel discarded afterwards?
This is irrelevant unless you're dependent.
If you have sex like most of us, i.e. because you like it, but you still afterwards "feel bad" - go see a therapist.
On the other hand if you have sex because you feel like you need to give it away to someone to get something back, or to do something for them and not you, then - go see a therapist.
Maybe after sex he just rolls over and starts snoring? Doesn't he hold you in his arms afterward?
I'm thinking the same thing.
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