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Old 04-18-2013, 10:05 PM
 
Location: kansas city
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ok im young which means im extremely horny and i had the idea of seeing an escort. so i did. her names lindsey and weve seen each other about 2 times the 2nd time she kinda asked me out. i wasnt to against the idea because she said that i was the only person that she was seeing and she quit. She said that we could just hang out ( movies, dinner socializing etc.). Is this a bad idea i mean she's had sex with other guys protected of course but these days you just never know. Shes cute and mysterious and thats what i like about her BUT as far as dating and kissing i dont know if shes the right person. Im a black guy and ive found white women to be very ......interesting especially to date and stuff. what should i do???
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Old 04-19-2013, 04:09 PM
 
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My advice might sting a bit. I've never understood why any man, other than the really ugly or handicapped, would pay for it. Doesnt it hurt your self esteem? I know peeps like Charlie Sheen have supposedly made it cool, but thats bull imo. But the super rich and famous at least have the excuse that its hard to meet anyone but co-stars or over zealous fans. I personally think men are stupid to pay huge amounts of $$$ for what they could get for free by being a good guy.


Maybe I'm over jaded, but my best friends husband went through over 40 thou. on hookers. In under a year even. Anyhoo, to your question: You already know the answer or you wouldnt have the heebie jeebies and need to ask strangers. Who wants someone that anyone had or could have for the right price? BUT, if she was good enough to have and pay for, go for it.


Hmmm on the white woman comment, care to explain?
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Old 04-20-2013, 04:31 PM
 
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Go out with her and if she bills you it will tell you she was full of sh*t.
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Old 04-20-2013, 04:48 PM
 
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So you got what you want but now you don't know if you want it? Think thats a decision for you to make.
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Old 04-20-2013, 04:51 PM
 
Location: in here, out there
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I personally think men are stupid to pay huge amounts of $$$ for what they could get for free by being a good guy.
Who ever said that dating/marriage was free?
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Old 04-20-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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I personally think men are stupid to pay huge amounts of $$$ for what they could get for free by being a good guy.
(Puts on flame proof suit)

LMFAO!!!


EVERY GUY KNOWS.... it's NEVER FREE!

(Before all the women tell me I'm wrong... save it. We know.)

-Note: I've never 'directly' paid for it....
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Old 04-20-2013, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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EVERY GUY KNOWS.... it's NEVER FREE!
But you know what...it's worth it!
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Old 04-20-2013, 05:24 PM
 
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ok im young which means im extremely horny and i had the idea of seeing an escort. so i did. her names lindsey and weve seen each other about 2 times the 2nd time she kinda asked me out. i wasnt to against the idea because she said that i was the only person that she was seeing and she quit. She said that we could just hang out ( movies, dinner socializing etc.). Is this a bad idea i mean she's had sex with other guys protected of course but these days you just never know. Shes cute and mysterious and thats what i like about her BUT as far as dating and kissing i dont know if shes the right person. Im a black guy and ive found white women to be very ......interesting especially to date and stuff. what should i do???
Are you still paying for her??

I think it's a bad idea.
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Old 04-20-2013, 05:32 PM
 
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lmfao...shes trying to get you to come back again and again. she not interested in you as a person

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weve seen each other about 2 times
about? how do you "about" see someone?...you either did or you did not
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Old 04-20-2013, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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lmfao...shes trying to get you to come back again and again. she not interested in you as a person


about? how do you "about" see someone?...you either did or you did not
Hahahaha!!!

So - the OP has seen her "about" 2 times - and she's already quit her job and wants to hang out? Sure.
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