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Old 04-24-2013, 11:34 AM
 
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So what DO you do? You imagine that there is a magical solution in the sky to change them into something else? Or do you realize that the person in question is not mature enough for the relationship and send them on their merry way to grow up. I think the fact that you believe in magic is indicative of your own immaturity. You are a miserable match made in heaven and are doomed to repeat this BS forever until (if) one of you grows up.
I ignore this type of behavior, as should every sensible person. Reinforcing this type of behavior does not help anyone at all. Try it sometime.
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Old 04-24-2013, 11:35 AM
 
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How many people do you really see fake crying. I think there are some that cry more easily than others but that isn't fake crying in my book.

Fake crying seems to be more something a 5 year old would do.

Do you meet a lot of women who are fake cryers?
There are alot of fake cryers out there. When a woman gets caught cheating for example, and has no way to BS her way out of it via lies, she will start fake crying on cue. Its just one example, but people in general use fake emotions trying to manipulate others.
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Old 04-24-2013, 11:37 AM
 
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There are alot of fake cryers out there. When a woman gets caught cheating for example, and has no way to BS her way out of it via lies, she will start fake crying on cue. Its just one example, but people in general use fake emotions trying to manipulate others.

Oh so you have been in that situation where you have caught your woman cheating and she started fake crying on you? Have you met a lot of women like that?

Or are you just stereotyping?
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Old 04-24-2013, 11:41 AM
 
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There are alot of fake cryers out there. When a woman gets caught cheating for example, and has no way to BS her way out of it via lies, she will start fake crying on cue. Its just one example, but people in general use fake emotions trying to manipulate others.
You make a lot of posts, "when a woman", "women do","women think". "Men think", "when men do" ... Let me guess. You are not in a successful relationship with a woman.
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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What's so hard about driving for 20 minutes in silence?
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:06 PM
 
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Oh so you have been in that situation where you have caught your woman cheating and she started fake crying on you? Have you met a lot of women like that?

Or are you just stereotyping?
Both. Happens all the time, you just have to be observant and in tune with whats going on around you.
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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You make a lot of posts, "when a woman", "women do","women think". "Men think", "when men do" ... Let me guess. You are not in a successful relationship with a woman.
I am in a succesful relationship with a woman. The woman I chose from many who were interested.
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:10 PM
 
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What's so hard about driving for 20 minutes in silence?
The best outcome is her behavior/mood is corrected and the original, happy atmosphere between us is restored. She sort of wins if I just sit in silence because she has successfully derailed the good time we were having.
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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The best outcome is her behavior/mood is corrected and the original, happy atmosphere between us is restored. She sort of wins if I just sit in silence because she has successfully derailed the good time we were having.
There is so much wrong with this, I can't even...
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Old 04-24-2013, 12:15 PM
 
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If there are leigitimate reasons for a woman to be upset, I think their SO should be there to comfort her and help her through it. If its the mans fault, he should offer apology and find a way to make things right. Im just going by what OP says and taking his words at face value.
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Who are you to decide whether someone else has a legitimate reason to be upset about something? We all have the right to our feelings. You might feel that you, yourself, wouldn't be upset about a particular event or behavior, but you don't get to tell other people they can't or shouldn't be.
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WTF are you psycho ranting about? I dont know if she has a legit reason to be upset, Im just going by OPs description. I tell people what I feel like telling people, and if they dont like the truth, they can choose to ignore it.
Mod cut: Rude. It's a very simple concept: You don't get to decide whether the reason someone else is upset is "legitimate." Just because something wouldn't upset you, that doesn't mean other people don't have a right to be upset about it.

Funny, you feel you can tell people what you feel like telling people, but when others tell you what they want to tell you, suddenly it's "psycho ranting." Sounds like you're just as desperate to control others and get the last word in as the OP.

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