What to make of this text? (girl, call, couple, straight)

[colin948]

So I was seeing this girl for a couple of months....we had a bit of an arguement through text the other day, she bascially said "we can go our sperate ways" I responded saying "thanks for showing me you like drama, if that's what you want, so be it no hard feelings"...her response the next morning was "i think you know i dont like drama...i wasnt trying to fight with you, just letting you know how I felt...I had a good time with you and think you're a nice guy...no hard feeling on my end either", so I'm not quite sure what to make of this text, was that her finalizing that it's over?

[DrEarth]

Call her and find out.

Don't try to have a conversation by text.

[LIS123]

Originally Posted by colin948

So I was seeing this girl for a couple of months....we had a bit of an arguement through text the other day, she bascially said "we can go our sperate ways" I responded saying "thanks for showing me you like drama, if that's what you want, so be it no hard feelings"...her response the next morning was "i think you know i dont like drama...i wasnt trying to fight with you, just letting you know how I felt...I had a good time with you and think you're a nice guy...no hard feeling on my end either", so I'm not quite sure what to make of this text, was that her finalizing that it's over?

Yes. I would let her go. If she reaches out to you, then talk to her but don't contact her.

[BirdieBelle]

Sounds like you went off on her and she replied by being reasonable. Call her and apologize, then set things straight.

[Checkered24]

It's always good to handle major relationship issues through text instead of through live conversation.

When things get put into words, they take on greater meaning and get blown out of proportion sometimes.

Call her.

[colin948]

No she said, "we can go our seperate ways"

[TaoistDude]

Originally Posted by colin948

No she said, "we can go our seperate ways"

She said "can", which may not mean "should" or even "will". If you want to, no problem - leave it as is. Otherwise, call her.

[colin948]

Originally Posted by TaoistDude

She said "can", which may not mean "should" or even "will". If you want to, no problem - leave it as is. Otherwise, call her.

But the last text seemed like she finalized it, no?

[Elained10]

Originally Posted by colin948

So I was seeing this girl for a couple of months....we had a bit of an arguement through text the other day, she bascially said "we can go our sperate ways" I responded saying "thanks for showing me you like drama, if that's what you want, so be it no hard feelings"...her response the next morning was "i think you know i dont like drama...i wasnt trying to fight with you, just letting you know how I felt...I had a good time with you and think you're a nice guy...no hard feeling on my end either", so I'm not quite sure what to make of this text, was that her finalizing that it's over?

I would say that she was finalising that its over

[colin948]

Originally Posted by Elained10

I would say that she was finalising that its over

Yea I think the "you're a nice guy and I had a good time with you...no hard feelings on my end either" sort of said it all.