Is it annoying to guys when (wife, kiss, interested, crying)
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I agree with the poster who said to be yourself! Life is too short to worry about annoying people by expressing your true personality!
I think the idea of dating to find someone you are compatible with is lost somehow and has morphed into the idea we should be able to make everyone like us. The truth is it is a process to weed out those we don't fit well with and you will never be successful in finding a good partner if you are willing to change who you are because of another's opinion.
Don't let your niceness/mushiness make someone think they could potentially take advantage of you wrongly - so with that to keep your guard up.
Ooooh okay. Thanks for the advice!
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Originally Posted by talloolla
I agree with the poster who said to be yourself! Life is too short to worry about annoying people by expressing your true personality!
I think the idea of dating to find someone you are compatible with is lost somehow and has morphed into the idea we should be able to make everyone like us. The truth is it is a process to weed out those we don't fit well with and you will never be successful in finding a good partner if you are willing to change who you are because of another's opinion.
Despite my reserved exterior, I'm actually a very mushy person, so I like when a girl is too. If a girl is too physically distant, it begins to feel like I'm being too needy or cuddly. I don't cling to people like a limpet and I don't like it when a girl does that either, but I'm fine about hugging/holding hands/cuddling in bed.
I might be brass tacks, blunt, hard nosed, hard driving (phrasing), deep down inside I am sensitive, sentimental and a hopeless romantic. So, no a mushy woman is not a bad thing.
I've never seen that movie but my ex hubby loved it (and he hates romantic comedies). Maybe I should watch it.
(Omg it's coming on right now on Bravo!)
Nice. Lol
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