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I've been dating this guy for over a month. We became intimate last weekend for the first time. We don't talk or text everyday which is fine with me. My phone broke a few days ago so our form of communication is by email. We pretty much email each other everyday.
Yesterday, he sent an email asking about my schedule for the rest of the week. He said he might be going skiing this weekend. My schedule varies every week but I'm mostly off on weekends. I replied to his email last night telling him about my schedule. This morning, I got an email from him asking if I got a new phone already. He didn't ask me about hanging out this week. Why did he even bother asking about my schedule for this week if he has no plan to see me. It's not the first time that he asked for my schedule and didn't plan anything with me. One weekend he went away to attend a birthday pool party, he asked for my schedule but I didn't see him that week. But the following week, we spent a whole day together.
Maybe I'm overanalyzing because I had sex with him last weekend. You know that after sex, guys disappear. Base on how he was treating me I don't think he can just blow me off just like that. I think he's a really nice guy. Every time we've hung out, he picks me up and drops me off at my place. Walks me to my front door. He makes sure I get in safe inside. He has been paying for all our dates and they were not cheap dates. He initiates contact with me. I never contacted him first.
Anyway, do you guys think he's blowing me off because he has not made plans to see me this week or I am just overanalyzing? Thanks.
He wants to see what your doing. If your seeing any other people.
He could be subconsciously trying to get you away from him, so he doesnt have to be mean, just not making plans and not seeing you so that you will move on by yourself. Just a thought....
He coulda really desired to spend time with you,(that's why he asked for your schedule), but maybe things just didn't work out the way he'd hoped or wanted.
. Base on how he was treating me I don't think he can just blow me off just like that. I think he's a really nice guy. Every time we've hung out, he picks me up and drops me off at my place. Walks me to my front door. He makes sure I get in safe inside. He has been paying for all our dates and they were not cheap dates. He initiates contact with me. I never contacted him first.
Anyway, do you guys think he's blowing me off because he has not made plans to see me this week or I am just overanalyzing? Thanks.
He sounds lovely. Based on what you just posted, there are no red flags. Relax, just enjoy him.
My schedule is always messed up. When I am in between my project, I can text, email, but calling would be challenging. Sometimes, I wait for two days to make a phone call, and when I am busying working on something interesting, my priority is not going to be HIM. It doesn't mean I don't love him, or lost interests.
Women tend to get a little emotional after sex, I understand how you feel. But he sounds great.
He wants to see what your doing. If your seeing any other people.
He could be subconsciously trying to get you away from him, so he doesnt have to be mean, just not making plans and not seeing you so that you will move on by yourself. Just a thought....
He has done it before tho that he didn't make plans to see me one week but I saw him the following week and we spent the whole day together. Morning till midnight.
Don't expect him to be the mind reader. Let him know what your expectations are. Good luck
But I don't want to sound too demanding.
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