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Old 05-06-2013, 12:15 PM
 
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Please do not categorize all women with the OP. Your Aussie gf is not much different than many American women or other women around the world. As you can see by the responses to the OP, many of which are American women, we do not think like her.
Many women will settle, which I refuse to do so. If more people refused to settle we would see a different society.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:16 PM
 
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I didn't put widowers in the same category at all, just said I might be jealous of their wife if I married them. That is understandable because their wife might have been their dream woman and how do I compete with that?
That is so disgusting.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Many women will settle, which I refuse to do so. If more people refused to settle we would see a different society.
That has nothing to do with him categorizing women with you. And not settling has nothing to do with marriages ending in divorce either.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:21 PM
 
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That is so disgusting.
It's being honest, many widowers loved their first wives so much they compare future wives to them. I have seen it often.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:22 PM
 
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That has nothing to do with him categorizing women with you. And not settling has nothing to do with marriages ending in divorce either.
But it does. Many people rush into marriages because society tells them marriage is the most important thing. Many admit they didn't even want to marry the person or got bad vibes from the marriage.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:24 PM
 
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It's being honest, many widowers loved their first wives so much they compare future wives to them. I have seen it often.
That may be true, but it doesn't make your statement any less appalling or disrespectful.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:25 PM
 
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It's being honest, many widowers loved their first wives so much they compare future wives to them. I have seen it often.
Sometimes the depth of your disgusting attitude is incomprehensible to normal people. I don't normally wish ill on people but I hope you never ever get married and that you never have children. You are truly a revolting human being.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:27 PM
 
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I love tacos.
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:27 PM
 
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But it does. Many people rush into marriages because society tells them marriage is the most important thing. Many admit they didn't even want to marry the person or got bad vibes from the marriage.
I want to know what society telling me something sounds like. It is a voice in one's head? What does society's voice sound like?
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Old 05-06-2013, 12:28 PM
 
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Why because I stated a fact? widowers often put their deceased wife on a pedestal, this is a fact. I wouldn't be comfortable in a situation where they talk about how much they loved their wife.
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