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Old 05-05-2013, 06:02 PM
 
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If so, how does that make you feel about him or around him. My 13 year old brother who is shorter and smaller than my boyfriend beat him arm-wrestling and wrestling the other day. So, I thought I'd stand a chance against my bf wrestling and sure enough, I beat him. I thought he was going to cry after losing to my brother, but I wasn't trying to make him feel bad. I wanted to test my strength against his. He strained and turned red, but was too weak to push or role me off and pin me. I pinned his shoulders down once for a 5 count and submitted him with a headlock the next round as my little brother did. My bf runs, tones with exercising and everything and I play tennis. But I was a cheerleader in highschool and am athletic myself. I'm 120 and 5'6" and bf has forty pounds on me.
This kind of makes our relationship awkward for us. I didn't doubt my 13 yo brother could beat him, because he is a wrestler, but I was surprised I was stronger. Now he just has to admit it.
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:14 PM
 
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Stop taking steroids
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:19 PM
 
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Haha. Nope, no steroids. I'm only 125lbs. I'm naturally strong and somewhat athletic.
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:20 PM
 
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If so, how does that make you feel about him or around him. My 13 year old brother who is shorter and smaller than my boyfriend beat him arm-wrestling and wrestling the other day. So, I thought I'd stand a chance against my bf wrestling and sure enough, I beat him. I thought he was going to cry after losing to my brother, but I wasn't trying to make him feel bad. I wanted to test my strength against his. He strained and turned red, but was too weak to push or role me off and pin me. I pinned his shoulders down once for a 5 count and submitted him with a headlock the next round as my little brother did. My bf runs, tones with exercising and everything and I play tennis. But I was a cheerleader in highschool and am athletic myself. I'm 120 and 5'6" and bf has forty pounds on me.
This kind of makes our relationship awkward for us. I didn't doubt my 13 yo brother could beat him, because he is a wrestler, but I was surprised I was stronger. Now he just has to admit it.

Actually he does NOT have to admit anything, he could just quit calling you and be done with the relationship.

Why in the world would you want to wrestle anyone let alone a boyfriend just to prove a point. You can't go to the gym or weight room and see how strong you are lifting weights or pulling ropes or something?
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:23 PM
 
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It just happened. I was eager to test my strength against him. Wrestling and armwrestling are good sports at doing that. I guess my little brother and I are wiry like our dad.
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:26 PM
 
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It just happened. I was eager to test my strength against him. Wrestling and armwrestling are good sports at doing that. I guess my little brother and I are wiry like our dad.
Let me rephrase the question and try to keep up this time:

Why would you want to wrestle anyone let alone your boyfriend just to prove a point. Can't you go to the gym and life weights or pull ropes or something to test your strength?
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:29 PM
 
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"Why would you want to wrestle anyone let alone your boyfriend just to prove a point. Can't you go to the gym and life weights or pull ropes or something to test your strength?"

I kept up.

It just happened. I was eager to test my strength against him. Wrestling and armwrestling are good sports at doing that. I guess my little brother and I are wiry like our dad.

And because why drive all the way to the gym when we could just wrestle right there. I should've taking him on in push-ups. But we can do the gym next time. Thanks for the suggestion.
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:30 PM
 
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PM me. I've got connections in the MMA world
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:33 PM
 
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Are you two into dominance and submission? So you wanted to humiliate and you did and now you want him to admit it and you want to humiliate him more by posting here? I'm not understanding the issue here...

Quite frankly, wrestling isn't all about weight or strength it's about technique and you might've have had better technique than him. It doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
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Old 05-05-2013, 06:37 PM
 
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No, its nothing like that. Just a little competitiveness. I was surprised at how weak he was.
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