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ok, this 's first time I share my story in forum. I have a really close friend, I and her known each other when we were children and we had a wonderful friendship. When we grow up, we both have many relationship in school but we still are good friends. I fall in love with her when we a freshman in university but she never know, I always care about her, do everythings to make her happy and hope...I dont have confidence to tell her I love her.
And last week, she said she have a boyfriend. I know it's good for her but I feel so sad.
Everybody, do I have a chance to win her heart, what should I do in this situation?
Thanks for reading, I hope I can deal with bad status.
English is not my native language, sorry if I have some mistake
its nothing unless there is someone "loving" you back in the same way, its just a feeling.
until then give the person the room they need to experience life the way they see fit, its not your choice to make right now she has chosen whom she want to love for the moment.
ok, this 's first time I share my story in forum. I have a really close friend, I and her known each other when we were children and we had a wonderful friendship. When we grow up, we both have many relationship in school but we still are good friends. I fall in love with her when we a freshman in university but she never know, I always care about her, do everythings to make her happy and hope...I dont have confidence to tell her I love her.
And last week, she said she have a boyfriend. I know it's good for her but I feel so sad.
Everybody, do I have a chance to win her heart, what should I do in this situation?
Thanks for reading, I hope I can deal with bad status.
English is not my native language, sorry if I have some mistake
If she has a boyfriend, then all you can do is move on. You should have let her know how you felt about her. It's okay. A common mistake. I myself didn't act and take the risk on some women that I had feelings for. Even if you do have a chance to win her heart, it probably isn't the right thing to break up a relationship. Also, she probably sees you as a friend and nothing more.
The best thing to do now is to go out and meet other women (so that you can get over your close friend). Meanwhile, keep things on a friendly level with your friend. If things do not work out for her. Let her know that you are interested in being more than friends. If she says yes, (which in my mind is probably highly unlikely) great. If she says no, then respect her response.
Don't worry about your English, we can certainly understand you. I am so sorry. I know this hurts. You should definitely try to date other women. If this girl eventually breaks up with her boyfriend (I hate to put it that way, nobody hopes for a break-up) then perhaps that will be the time to tell her of your feelings for her, if you still have them. But for now she is taken.
Now that she has a boyfriend I think I would let them be. It isn't right to try to break them apart, but if a day comes where they do break up I would suggest that you tell her how you feel about her. It is very likley that she has no idea at all.
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Go after her. You only live once. She's not her boyfriend's property.
I'd be more concerned about the property the boyfriend DOES own. Such as guns, knives, baseball bats, a couple of right-hand men, etc.
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I am so sorry. I know this hurts. You should definitely try to date other women. If this girl eventually breaks up with her boyfriend (I hate to put it that way, nobody hopes for a break-up) then perhaps that will be the time to tell her of your feelings for her, if you still have them. But for now she is taken.
