Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 05-07-2013, 06:24 PM
 
19,969 posts, read 30,213,440 times
Reputation: 40041

Advertisements

neither honey, thats why i'm with you ...then smile..

as someone mentioned,,,some women do like to ask cutting questions..... thats why you've got to have some questions of your own-at the ready,,,
and then stand your ground, she has to answer your question, for you to answer hers
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 05-07-2013, 06:41 PM
 
15,714 posts, read 21,067,448 times
Reputation: 12818
Quote:
Originally Posted by mainebrokerman View Post
neither honey, thats why i'm with you ...then smile..

as someone mentioned,,,some women do like to ask cutting questions..... thats why you've got to have some questions of your own-at the ready,,,
and then stand your ground, she has to answer your question, for you to answer hers
So what kinds of questions would those be? I don't know...if my husband asks me a question I just answer it honestly. If he doesn't want an honest answer, then he shouldn't ask the question.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 06:47 PM
 
19,969 posts, read 30,213,440 times
Reputation: 40041
Quote:
Originally Posted by *Sixy* View Post
So what kinds of questions would those be? I don't know...if my husband asks me a question I just answer it honestly. If he doesn't want an honest answer, then he shouldn't ask the question.
bingo!!!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 06:50 PM
 
15,714 posts, read 21,067,448 times
Reputation: 12818
Quote:
Originally Posted by mainebrokerman View Post
bingo!!!
Right, but if I ask him a question I want an honest answer from him. Instead he tries to figure out what the right answer is...I have no idea what the right answer is. That's why I asked him in the first place! lol
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Where the heart is...
4,927 posts, read 5,313,214 times
Reputation: 10674
Default I have a question for you...

Quote:
Originally Posted by the_dimwit View Post
So my wife and I are watching television last night and she asks me the type of question that I (and perhaps a lot of other guys) dread. The question:

"If you had to choose, would you rather have a woman with a great face and ok body or a woman with a great body and ok face?"

My answer was to refuse to answer, and I could tell that she was not pleased. Initially, I didn't want to answer the question because it seemed to pave the way to a "do these pants make my butt look big?" discussion. Then, I didn't want to answer because I knew I was tired and that the discussion might devolve into something that got me into trouble (lol).

After a night's sleep and a few minutes to really ponder the question, I sent her an email as my official response. The bulk of it is below:

My question is whether this would qualify as an acceptable answer or an example of why these types of questions are risky at best and should be avoided? I think I tried to answer her question in an honest way but I also wanted to turn a potential negative into a positive. Did I succeed?

--Dim
Do you have an older and identical brother? Uncle? Cousin? Friend?

Yes, your answer qualifies as a VERY, VERY acceptable answer...that is all and carry on.

Best regards, sincerely

HomeIsWhere...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Way up high
22,331 posts, read 29,421,443 times
Reputation: 31472
The beauty is now a days you can fix both!!

So just make sure she cooks, cleans and is a horndog
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Southern California
15,080 posts, read 20,470,374 times
Reputation: 10343
Quote:
Originally Posted by the_dimwit View Post
...

Did I succeed?

--Dim
No.

[it was a simple question and you made it complicated]
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:17 PM
 
15,714 posts, read 21,067,448 times
Reputation: 12818
Quote:
Originally Posted by MIKEETC View Post
No.

[it was a simple question and you made it complicated]
Yup, agree!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:22 PM
 
12,573 posts, read 15,560,619 times
Reputation: 8960
Quote:
Originally Posted by the_dimwit View Post
So my wife and I are watching television last night and she asks me the type of question that I (and perhaps a lot of other guys) dread. The question:

"If you had to choose, would you rather have a woman with a great face and ok body or a woman with a great body and ok face?"

My answer was to refuse to answer, and I could tell that she was not pleased. Initially, I didn't want to answer the question because it seemed to pave the way to a "do these pants make my butt look big?" discussion. Then, I didn't want to answer because I knew I was tired and that the discussion might devolve into something that got me into trouble (lol).

After a night's sleep and a few minutes to really ponder the question, I sent her an email as my official response. The bulk of it is below:



My question is whether this would qualify as an acceptable answer or an example of why these types of questions are risky at best and should be avoided? I think I tried to answer her question in an honest way but I also wanted to turn a potential negative into a positive. Did I succeed?

--Dim
The proper answer would be: Why would I have to choose?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-07-2013, 07:29 PM
 
516 posts, read 1,616,747 times
Reputation: 323
Or you could say, "you can put a bag over her head and still have fun, but it might be more difficult to have such fun with a bag over body." My point is that it is a loaded question and sometimes you have to meet loaded questions with an absurd response.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 08:13 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top