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Old 05-10-2013, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Rio
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OH MY GOD. HOW the HELL did people EVER date before the internet came along????? Jaysus.

Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.

If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.
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Old 05-10-2013, 09:01 AM
 
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Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.

If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.

You totally miss the point. Stop asking questions on forums and TALK to the damn girls you are asking about.

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Old 05-10-2013, 10:12 AM
 
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Women expect you to make the first move, including texting most of the time if they like you.

Until they get older, then they realize how dumb this idea is.
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Old 05-10-2013, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Gotham
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lol yeah thats why i modified it... I dont expect her to "feel" someway about me thats cheesy. I changed it to "think"... its more general without over stepping. She shares what she thinks and ill share what I think. I have girls that text me first and I have no stress writing them first when the situation changes. If i constantly have to write a girl first , i feel like im being annoying. It should not be that way and I know that for a fact.
Think, feel....it's the same lame question, just with different wording. Just get to the point of what you want.

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Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.

If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.
You can omit the "i like you part" but how is asking someone out being a wuss? It saves you from an unnecessary "process" so you can move on if she says no.
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Old 05-10-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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they mean pick up the phone and use it for it original purpose and talk to people. any misconception or uncertainty can be solved by talking to the person and just saying what you mean.

no reading in between the lines, no waiting for canned responses...just what it is for what it is.
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Old 05-10-2013, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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they mean pick up the phone and use it for it original purpose and talk to people.
Why not just use a telgram, pony express, or carrier pigeon?
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Old 05-10-2013, 02:50 PM
 
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Relationship dynamics.

The person who is more needy, clingy and lower value will text the person of higher value first.
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Old 05-10-2013, 05:05 PM
 
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Actually, I think in the under 25 crowd texting is absolutely considered a part of 'courting'. I've heard guys and gals of my brothers age (he'll be 21 in a few months) that consider texting other people a form of cheating. Again, young, insecure and using different forms of communication. I'm nearly 30 so I was just out of High school when texting really started becoming popular so I think I missed a lot of that drama...though there are plenty of people my age or older who participate.
Lol!

But we love each other!!! We text all the time!!

Lol!
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Old 05-10-2013, 05:06 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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This is why I don't like texting.
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Old 05-10-2013, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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What Do Texts Mean?
You're thinking too hard about it.

[and stop worrying so much about who texts who first]
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