Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
OH MY GOD. HOW the HELL did people EVER date before the internet came along????? Jaysus.
Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.
If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.
Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.
If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.
You totally miss the point. Stop asking questions on forums and TALK to the damn girls you are asking about.
lol yeah thats why i modified it... I dont expect her to "feel" someway about me thats cheesy. I changed it to "think"... its more general without over stepping. She shares what she thinks and ill share what I think. I have girls that text me first and I have no stress writing them first when the situation changes. If i constantly have to write a girl first , i feel like im being annoying. It should not be that way and I know that for a fact.
Think, feel....it's the same lame question, just with different wording. Just get to the point of what you want.
Quote:
Originally Posted by AstonMartinNY
Yeah, it was the guy who asked the girl out and she said yes because she felt sorry for em. Im not that guy who just gives in like that "oh i like you, will you go out with me Mary Jane?" lmao nothing screams out wuss more than that. With me its a process, i have to be sure she feels the same and i have to get to know her. In addition, i have to get the word on her from my bro who goes to the same school as her. We share a campus but the schools are divided.
If you ever give in like that, you'll be really hurt.
You can omit the "i like you part" but how is asking someone out being a wuss? It saves you from an unnecessary "process" so you can move on if she says no.
they mean pick up the phone and use it for it original purpose and talk to people. any misconception or uncertainty can be solved by talking to the person and just saying what you mean.
no reading in between the lines, no waiting for canned responses...just what it is for what it is.
Actually, I think in the under 25 crowd texting is absolutely considered a part of 'courting'. I've heard guys and gals of my brothers age (he'll be 21 in a few months) that consider texting other people a form of cheating. Again, young, insecure and using different forms of communication. I'm nearly 30 so I was just out of High school when texting really started becoming popular so I think I missed a lot of that drama...though there are plenty of people my age or older who participate.
[and stop worrying so much about who texts who first]
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.