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What if its a girl who obviously shows she likes you in person (it gets physical) but doesn't text you unless you text them first? (she used to write me first BTW)
Next one, A girl who gave me her number, also doesn't text unless i initiate and when we do its a pretty good convo (I gave it a test yesterday and she didnt go at all, so ill see how today goes). In person she acts funny and wonder's why I dont feel right saying anything to her. She says im quiet meanwhile when i try she acts like she doesn't want to talk. Its mixed signals.
Here's the twist, gonna sound foolish of me idc but these girls happen to be friends but idk how close of friends. Could that be a factor?
and yes to ask her. honesty and authenticity will cut you a break, and spare you of any more stress than you need to stress on this.
lol im not as bad as you think. It just that so many girls in the school know each other and even my ex who now attends my school says a good deal of her friends like me. The first example said so as well.... I wanna know who are these girls they're talking about lol. Its like no matter who i choose, its a friend of somebody.
I know the first example likes me but im more interested in the second. I'd feel like a fool just asking her does she like me, if I dont get the SURE sign that you do, i dont feel right just asking. Id feel like a damn loser lmao.
So i just want to determine what her actions mean.
I actually would not ask that, and as a female I would be turned off by it. Just ask her out. Asking how she feels about you first to me feels too much like asking permission/low self-esteem. If they are waiting for you to text first, sounds to me like they are wanting you to take the lead...so take it.
I actually would not ask that, and as a female I would be turned off by it. Just ask her out. Asking how she feels about you first to me feels too much like asking permission/low self-esteem. If they are waiting for you to text first, sounds to me like they are wanting you to take the lead...so take it.
lol yeah thats why i modified it... I dont expect her to "feel" someway about me thats cheesy. I changed it to "think"... its more general without over stepping. She shares what she thinks and ill share what I think. I have girls that text me first and I have no stress writing them first when the situation changes. If i constantly have to write a girl first , i feel like im being annoying. It should not be that way and I know that for a fact.
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