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Guys and girls, please chime in on this. You can say nasty/mean things about me I really need to hear everything I can because I am so narrow-minded. Just please no 'get a shrink'
Please, please, please don't tell me what would actually be helpful to solve the issue that lives within ME. Please, instead, tell me what to say to her to make it ok. Because I am still hoping she can rescue me from my own mental issues.
4) When I met her, she was in a 5 year long distance relationship. They met every other 2 weeks or so, and it wasn't always 'fun'. I pursued her like hell, and she fell in love with me while being in this relationship.
Pursued another man's girl? You don't trust because you are not trustworthy.
Let your girlfriend go. She can do better anyway. And work on you.
Please, please, please don't tell me what would actually be helpful to solve the issue that lives within ME. Please, instead, tell me what to say to her to make it ok. Because I am still hoping she can rescue me from my own mental issues.
1) I am (at least I think) sick in the head. 2 things about me - All my life I have seen my father (my only male role model) accuse my mom of cheating, and making her life hell (it turns out the apple doesn't fall far from the paranoid tree).
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There is NOTHING. No evidence of her cheating in any way, and I am just fabricating stories in my head. But from what I said in 1 and 2, I have a way of seeing women - even the one I love most.
Any time I have been seeing a women who shows signs of extreme jealousy, I bolt. Not worth the headache. If I was this woman I would do the same. The OP needs to address his issues before he even thinks about being in a relationship with someone. He will just go around making others miserable.
Many posters have given you pretty good advice already. OP
I just want to say that I appreciate your honesty. You sound like a very sweet person. We all have our insecurities, not many of us are willing to admit it. You are a real man, now deal with your insecurities. Hope your relationship works out. Good luck!
exactly, the fact that he acknowledges that is he who has the issue is a good start!
I recommend getting some therapy and working through your trust issues before you get involved in any future relationships or dating.
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