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Porn isn't the greatest thing for men. It causes men to become desensitized to real women. It makes men lazy and self absorbed....... it's easier to sit around and watch porn and tug it then get involved with women. It also distorts real sex from porn sex.....
Porn sex always looked fake to me..... even being a little kid and seeing your first porno, it seemed fake..... IDK... hard to explain....
I could care less about porn. I've seen some on DH's computer. /shrug
He travels for weeks at a time so I'm guessing there is some on his portable electronics or hotel bill.
I've watched it, and it can be titillating at times.
I have no problem with our sex life, so if that's something a little extra for him then so what?
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I dont mind it. Have watched it a couple of times but its mostly boring. Never minded a boyfriend watching porn and i think is a dumb reason to get angry.
I completely get that all men look at porn, that doesn't bother me at all. Men are EXTREMELY visual, much moreso than women, which is why I think many women don't understand nudie mags and porn.
Nope, I've yet to meet a single guy that didn't look at porn and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I watch porn here and there as well, and think it can be fun watching it with a partner. The problem came when he started suggesting plastic surgery and putting me down because I didn't look like those women. There were also certain sex acts that we tried and I didn't feel comfortable with or didn't like and he made me feel terrible about it because apparently it was 'my job' to make him happy and my happiness and pleasure didn't factor into that at all.
I know just as many men that feel threatened by a vibrator as women that feel threatened by porn.
Every relationship is different. Some people have no problem with porn and sex toys - some people do. The important thing is to be on the same page as your partner or work out some sort of compromise that both people can live with.
You are comparing apples to oranges. More appropriate would be to compare an artificial vagina to a vibrator. How would you like your man to do an artificial vagina instead of you?
As for me, I have bought my sugar baby two dildos. Nothing really bothers me as long as everyone's having a good time. She never brings them but knows it fine with me.
You are comparing apples to oranges. More appropriate would be to compare an artificial vagina to a vibrator. How would you like your man to do an artificial vagina instead of you?
As for me, I have bought my sugar baby two dildos. Nothing really bothers me as long as everyone's having a good time. She never brings them but knows it fine with me.
Do you prefer porn to real sex? I said nothing about women preferring a vibrator. I'm not sure where that even came from.
And insecurities are insecurities - whether the have to do with porn or a vibrator. My point is that both parties should be able to eventually reach some understanding so that they are both happy in the relationship.
I think it's even funnier that you declare the thread dead if no one posts for a little over twenty minutes. Seems a bit desperate to me.
Oh, yes! I am desperate for people to post in a thread I didn't start and have hardly posted in!
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