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Would you date me if you were a female between age 21-34?
Here are some pictures of me. I"m a 32 year old male from the Los Angeles area. I have a very hard time meeting woman. I'm curouis as to why. I have my own car and Im currently employed. Its very hard for me to even become friends with woman. All of my friends are guys.
I also forget to mention that I have a BA degree from a university.
I have lost 35 pounds since these pictures were taken.
Also I"m different' I don't drink,smoke or do drugs. I"m not into bars or clubs.
There was this 24 year old girl who I was an aqcuintance with who said I look like a little kid.
Here is my youtube page. You can see what im like. I have lost 35 pounds since I took these videos.
After joining this site and paying 3 woman to date me 2 of the woman wanted to see me again after the 1st date only if I gave them money. There is this 21 year old girl who I saw twice from that site. I ended up paying her twice. On the website you are supposed to only pay woman for the 1st date. I asked this girl for a 3rd date and she only wants to see me if I pay here a large aount of money. she wont give me sex wither.
You look like a stereotypical IT guy. Combine that first impression with your aspergers and women probably get the impression that you just sit in front of a computer all day and have no social skills.
That is just my take on it.
By the way, the 2nd picture is a good picture of you.
I'm not sure if you are a self diagnosed aspie or were diagnosed by a doctor (it doesn't really matter much I guess), but this could be a reason you are having difficulty communicating with women. Talk therapy can help you work on communication skills, which EVERYONE can benefit from.
Only bringing this up because you did first. I know absolutely nothing about you. I just have several friends (including myself arguably) on the spectrum who have had issues with communication. Some of us more than others.
You look like a stereotypical IT guy. Combine that first impression with your aspergers and women probably get the impression that you just sit in front of a computer all day and have no social skills.
That is just my take on it.
By the way, the 2nd picture is a good picture of you.
I'm very shy. Often if I'm with a stranger I sit there and don't say anything.
I'm not sure if you are a self diagnosed aspie or were diagnosed by a doctor (it doesn't really matter much I guess), but this could be a reason you are having difficulty communicating with women. Talk therapy can help you work on communication skills, which EVERYONE can benefit from.
Only bringing this up because you did first. I know absolutely nothing about you. I just have several friends (including myself arguably) on the spectrum who have had issues with communication. Some of us more than others.
Does anyone think that a woman will be interested in me for who I am?
You're a good looking guy, but that's not going to be enough. People with Aspergers are socially challenged. That certainly doesn't help the situation. Don't go to a site where you have to pay women to date you. A lot of those women are hookers trying to skirt the law. The rest are, more than likely, looking for a sugar daddy. You're diving in a pool that is full of fakes and Aspies are the farthest from fake as it can get.
I suggest you find a local Aspergers support group in your area. Google it. Meetup.com may have some. Your money is better spent on acquiring the knowledge and tools that will help you co-exist more comfortably with neurotypicals and find ways to help them understand you.
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