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Old 05-13-2013, 04:20 PM
 
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WTH? Why is this a big deal? It's not like she's asking you your penis size before she gets too involved. I always ask guys their last names before meeting them in person (one on one).

If my body is found duct taped and gagged somewhere in a ditch after the first date, I think its only logical that there be a last name attached to the dude who killed me.
If you meet him in your own car, the likelihood of that happening goes down a little.

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Had a nice and entertaining conversation last night with this woman and after 2 hours she asked......."so what is your last name?


HUH????????? What magazine or Tv show is telling women to ask this question because no one asked me this at all 6 years ago. This silly mess just started in the last couple of years. And I don't want to cut her off because we did have a nice convo but that question just came out of nowhere.

All I want to know is.......................why the sudden request????
She wants to draw her name with yours in pink ink with hearts and roses.
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Old 05-13-2013, 04:34 PM
 
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Had a nice and entertaining conversation last night with this woman and after 2 hours she asked......."so what is your last name?


HUH????????? What magazine or Tv show is telling women to ask this question because no one asked me this at all 6 years ago. This silly mess just started in the last couple of years. And I don't want to cut her off because we did have a nice convo but that question just came out of nowhere.

All I want to know is.......................why the sudden request????

Oh geez. I am certain people have run me through. Not Googled me, which would pull up 15 pages of hits, in languages as different as Japanese, Russian, and Greek, but run me through looking for arrest records and things of that nature. Do I like it? Not really. Is it reality? Yes. Am I going to pitch a fit about it? No, it's not worth my time.

WestPhillyDude, you are not that important that every woman cares enough about you to be out to get you. Seriously. She was probably concerned about her personal safety and wanted to make sure you don't have a rap sheet. Lighten up. You'll live longer.
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Old 05-13-2013, 04:49 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It's no big deal unless the person is trying to be deceitful. People can't do much of anything with a first and last name of a person. She'd be a fool not to look you up, there's too many men out there that are date rapists, con men, etc.
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Old 05-13-2013, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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She wants to stalk you. Do you want her to or not???
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Old 05-13-2013, 06:04 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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The age of Internet research. She wants to Google you and then may start stalking you on Facebook or Instagram or LinkedIn.

My facebook is private so she can't find me on there
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Old 05-13-2013, 06:18 PM
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Well I am officially unsearchable on the web so now I can give my last name.
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Old 05-13-2013, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She wants to stalk you. Do you want her to or not???
Haha. Too late.
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Old 05-13-2013, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Well I am officially unsearchable on the web so now I can give my last name.
I found you!
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:05 PM
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I found you!

Whatever lol
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Whatever lol
Omg are you wearing boxers? Sitting there eating your popcorn like no tomorrow. Aren't you cold?
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