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Old 05-13-2013, 07:22 PM
 
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I don't get why people frown upon this so much. I've had lots of girls tell me that I'm too tall and no one makes that out to be a big deal, but as soon as I say I don't like fat girls people act like I'm some bad guy. If girls can think I'm too tall then why can't I think some girls are too fat?
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:25 PM
 
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You can think it.

I think some men are too fat.

I just don't tell them so...maybe that's the difference.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Who cares. That's what your preference is. I have mine too. I don't like giraffes. So whatever. Make like a tree.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:26 PM
 
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There's nothing wrong with it as long as you aren't being derogatory. I prefer certain body types myself. I have had men tell me my breasts are too big or my butt is too flat. Whatever.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Common sense tells me that its offensive.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:29 PM
 
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If girls can think I'm too tall then why can't I think some girls are too fat?
You can.
But if you're a jerk about it, then expect people to treat you like a jerk

Pretty simple
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Somewhere
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I don't get why people frown upon this so much. I've had lots of girls tell me that I'm too tall and no one makes that out to be a big deal, but as soon as I say I don't like fat girls people act like I'm some bad guy. If girls can think I'm too tall then why can't I think some girls are too fat?
Do you really have to volunteer that kind of information? Isn't it easier just to ask out those you find attractive and leave the rest alone?

I don't like men who are obsesed with women's weight but I rather keep that information to myself. There are enough men and women out there.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:35 PM
 
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it is unhealthy to be fat and theres too many spoiled american fat women who dont exercise and eat too much and then want the best looking men.
So it's a health question?


Do you take girls on dates to get a physical?

People of all body shapes can be spoiled and unhealthy.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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There isn't anything wrong with a guy disliking large women, and women disliking large men.

Just don't be a jerk about it, but also don't like about it,either.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:42 PM
 
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There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to people that have more weight. The problem is how you go about saying it. If you walk around saying "I can't date you because you're fat", you're going to get some negative responses.
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