One serving per customer? (boyfriend, girl, feelings, looking)
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A girl rejected my original interest. She then hooked up with another guy and totally blew me off for months. But things didn't work out. He did something, not sure what, that she didn't like. I think it was another girl as he has a reputation for this.
Anyway she has come back telling me this and wanting to know if I still have feelings for her? She actually asked me this?
She was polite but pretty callus and inconsiderate the way she initially rejected me. She literally ran away from me and then her and the other guy joked about me liking her in front of me.
Should I give her another chance or tell her it was a limited time offer?
Oh no man, She is looking for a backup boyfriend. Tell her to find someone else. She must have nerves of steel presenting this. Seriously, Don't get involved, She just wants to fill a void with what she feels is a sure bet and clearly does not care about you.
Why not literally confront her with the question of whether she is aiming for a "backup boyfriend"? Don't be insulting to her personally, but don't hesitate to use crude sexual colloquialisms to emphasize the awkwardness of the situation and the abrasiveness of her earlier behavior. Explain that you felt jilted and used. If she is forthright in apologizing, then maybe it's worth forgiving her.
I'd tell her that given the way she rejected you the first time, there won't be a second chance. That instance revealed her character, and if it were me, I'd not want anything to do with her.
A girl rejected my original interest. She then hooked up with another guy and totally blew me off for months. But things didn't work out. He did something, not sure what, that she didn't like. I think it was another girl as he has a reputation for this.
Anyway she has come back telling me this and wanting to know if I still have feelings for her? She actually asked me this?
She was polite but pretty callus and inconsiderate the way she initially rejected me. She literally ran away from me and then her and the other guy joked about me liking her in front of me.
Should I give her another chance or tell her it was a limited time offer?
I find laughter to be the best response to such questions. Followed by walking away/a dial tone.
A girl rejected my original interest. She then hooked up with another guy and totally blew me off for months. But things didn't work out. He did something, not sure what, that she didn't like. I think it was another girl as he has a reputation for this.
Anyway she has come back telling me this and wanting to know if I still have feelings for her? She actually asked me this?
She was polite but pretty callus and inconsiderate the way she initially rejected me. She literally ran away from me and then her and the other guy joked about me liking her in front of me.
Should I give her another chance or tell her it was a limited time offer?
No way would I give her another chance. Don't respond to her with "it was a limited time offer". Just tell her after the way she treated you, you no longer feel the same about her and that you've moved on. Sounds like she sees you as you are her fall-back guy.
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