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Although most women will deny what I'm about to say, I'm here to tell you that what I say is absolutely true, in most cases.
From personal experience and reading other men's testimonies, it has become clear to me that ignoring women, especially if they're attractive, will often make them interested in you. Now, by ignore I don't mean that if a woman were to come up to you to start a conversation you should walk away and refuse to talk to her. I'm talking about ignoring her beauty, having a lack of interest, etc. I personally don't ignore women to get their attention, I've just given up on relationships, but whenever women find out that I've decided to stay single and that I'm not fazed by their beauty, they seem to come after me. I'll give some examples:
I've recently joined a dating and friendship site. I've made it clear on my profile that I'm only looking for friendships and that I've given up on women and don't even have one night stands. Since then I've had quite a few women contact me, and one of them, who just so happens to live in my local area, is eager for us to meet up to have a walk together. However, in the past when I've emailed women, they have usually ignored me or told me to go away.
Many times in the past when I've ignored a hot woman, whether in the street, on the bus, or even in the job centre, I've noticed that they often try to get my attention. They will often start moving around in front of me and keep turning their head to see if I am looking at them. Or they might come up to me and ask me for directions or what time it is, etc. In the past women have also come after me more after I turned them down, but if I ever chased after a woman it would make them back off.
Women don't want the secret getting out. Most women love attention. There was a man who once said he knows a woman who would dress up and go out to pubs and clubs just for the pleasure of turning men down and telling them to sling their hook. Apparently it gave her a big ego boost. If every man on the planet, or even 70% of them, gave women no attention and refused to chase after them, women would start chasing the men. Most attractive women know that men are ten a penny. The only power women have is the power that men allow them to have. But men have become so weak that they are allowing women to rule the world.
I think it's only the shallow, self-absorbed, game-playing or terminally insecure women who would act like this. So if that's the type of woman you want....by all means, continue to play that game.
If you approach you know for sure that you do something. If you wait they may or may not come. And you have only one life.
By ignoring them you don't have to go through the humiliation of being rejected. And besides, some women have even admitted that they go out for the purpose of rejecting men. It gives them an ego boost. If you go after them you're just another guy out of 100. Ignoring women has worked for me, even though I did not intend to pull them.
Right now I'm on a dating friendship site. I have made it clear on my profile that I'm only here for friends, yet just after 3 days a hot woman is wanting to take me out in her car for a ride. Turns out she lives very near to me.
By ignoring them you don't have to go through the humiliation of being rejected. And besides, some women have even admitted that they go out for the purpose of rejecting men. It gives them an ego boost. If you go after them you're just another guy out of 100. Ignoring women has worked for me, even though I did not intend to pull them.
Right now I'm on a dating friendship site. I have made it clear on my profile that I'm only here for friends, yet just after 3 days a hot woman is wanting to take me out in her car for a ride. Turns out she lives very near to me.
Rejection really isn't that bad, though. But yeah, "ignoring" women can get them curious in some cases. It does work for some people. (Not for everyone, though.
And of course some women go out just to reject men. Something to keep in mind for people scared to approach. It's not you, it's them...
I think it's only the shallow, self-absorbed, game-playing or terminally insecure women who would act like this. So if that's the type of woman you want....by all means, continue to play that game.
Rejection really isn't that bad, though. But yeah, "ignoring" women can get them curious in some cases. It does work for some people. (Not for everyone, though.
And of course some women go out just to reject men. Something to keep in mind for people scared to approach. It's not you, it's them...
...oh wait, what did I just say?
I can guarantee you, go to a bar or club and remain distant from women. Behave as though you're not there to pull, but just to have a chill out with your friends. Don't look or stare at any woman. Soon enough you will be getting women approach you. Believe me, they will notice the guy who acts different to most other guys. I'm not saying it will happen right away. Give it time. But it has happened with me and lots of other men.
I can guarantee you, go to a bar or club and remain distant from women. Behave as though you're not there to pull, but just to have a chill out with your friends. Don't look or stare at any woman. Soon enough you will be getting women approach you. Believe me, they will notice the guy who acts different to most other guys. I'm not saying it will happen right away. Give it time. But it has happened with me and lots of other men.
It happened to me to. Even I don't act uninterested. But it is 1-7 who approach. Not 8-10. If I approach I can choice who. If you somehow manage to be approached by women you like, and you look uninterested, respect for you. So another huge minus for yours theory.
I can guarantee you, go to a bar or club and remain distant from women. Behave as though you're not there to pull, but just to have a chill out with your friends. Don't look or stare at any woman. Soon enough you will be getting women approach you. Believe me, they will notice the guy who acts different to most other guys. I'm not saying it will happen right away. Give it time. But it has happened with me and lots of other men.
Oh, I've had it happen before. myself. I go to watch the game for instance and I get tons of attention. I've also had pleasant surprises from approaching a woman (I rarely approach). Usually, its when I notice a woman seeming to have an interest to talk to me.
A lot of times, I get looks and other signs of interest. I decide to go for it and she is more than happy that I did. For women that got "STAY AWAY" stamped on their forehead, I just leave them alone.
Oh, I've had it happen before. myself. I go to watch the game for instance and I get tons of attention. I've also had pleasant surprises from approaching a woman (I rarely approach). Usually, I notice a woman seeming to have a desperation to talk to me.
That's key. If you want a desperate woman to come limping over to beg for attention, any little bit of attention at all, this method works wonders.
I'm not saying you're unattractive, TJenkins. You may be quite cute, I don't know. I'm more addressing the whole "ignore them and they will come" thing.
You go to a bar or what-have-you, you'll find SOME woman who will come over for attention, even drunken attention if that's what it takes. That's what bars are for.
I have never been one of those women...thank God. I feel bad for them. It's not that I'm gorgeous or anything, I'm not. It's just that I'd never resort to skulking around bars waiting for some guy who's just sitting there rather than going for the attractive woman, so that I can find that little bit of attention.
If it came to that, I'd rather get a cat.
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