What can I do to stop gay men from hitting me on all the time? (calling, looking)
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It happens if you are decent looking. One time I was walking in NYC, and these two gay guys behind me were making rude sexual comments about my ass. Another time when I was sitting on a park bench, this guy stopped jogging, sat down, and tried to hit on me. There were some others, but it doesn't happen that often.
Unless you want to start eating cupcakes for your meals and pour acid on your face, then it's a part of life.
And technically, they are not hitting on you. It's just some guys on the train who are staring. They could also be staring at nothing, and you just think highly of yourself, and assume they are looking at you.
It happens if you are decent looking. One time I was walking in NYC, and these two gay guys behind me were making rude sexual comments about my ass. Another time when I was sitting on a park bench, this guy stopped jogging, sat down, and tried to hit on me. There were some others, but it doesn't happen that often.
Unless you want to start eating cupcakes for your meals and pour acid on your face, then it's a part of life.
And technically, they are not hitting on you. It's just some guys on the train who are staring. They could also be staring at nothing, and you just think highly of yourself, and assume they are looking at you.
So what did you when the gay man sat next on the bench?
Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
Your post is funny coming from a guy. This is how I felt as a younger woman. I became a man hater for a while. I felt trapped. I suggest you move somewhere else. I know it feels gross. I'm latina too. I married a chubby guy with glasses who is not oversexed and respectful of women.
Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
Unfortunately you live in a gay Mecca these things happen. If you make eye contact just give a look of disgust I'm sure they'll get the hint.
Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
No it means he is bi-curious if he is flattered. No straight man should be flattered from getting hit on from gay men.
OMG im a woman and NOT a lesbian. But..if chick hit on me id be flattered..as long as she wasnt a brute. (Those types make me want to pull out a blade or something). It's simply the fact that a person found me attractive, even though im not into them. It's kinda like an ugly guy thinking im goodlooking. I dont like him, but im still flattered. Get it? So..i dont like women like that, but i can be flattered if a NON butch one found me attractive. The butch ones just creep me out..sorry.
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