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Old 05-17-2013, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Betsyville
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I've been in interracial relationships before but now I'm not having any luck. I'm chubby, I have a job as a school bus driver, I have a sweet personality, I don't have kids, and I'm kinda weird. Weird as in, I listen to rock music mainly but I like all kinds of music. I love thrift shops and have collected many treasures. I have a thing for Hello Kitty. I don't smoke but will if I'm stressed out enough. I'm still pursuing my education. I'm 29 and will be the big 3-0 next year. I am goth/emo and will sometimes dress in all black, wear platform shoes and have funny colors in my hair. I'm looking to move out of California and considering other cities.
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Old 05-17-2013, 09:47 PM
 
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I've been in interracial relationships before but now I'm not having any luck. I'm chubby, I have a job as a school bus driver, I have a sweet personality, I don't have kids, and I'm kinda weird. Weird as in, I listen to rock music mainly but I like all kinds of music. I love thrift shops and have collected many treasures. I have a thing for Hello Kitty. I don't smoke but will if I'm stressed out enough. I'm still pursuing my education. I'm 29 and will be the big 3-0 next year. I am goth/emo and will sometimes dress in all black, wear platform shoes and have funny colors in my hair. I'm looking to move out of California and considering other cities.
You should sign up with the fan sites of bands like My Chemical Romance, 30 Seconds to Mars etc.. and go to their album signings and events. You will meet a lot of people who enjoy your kind of stuff and dress like you do. My niece is into this kind of stuff too and has a lot of friends through her enjoyment of goth type rock music. Have fun and good luck!
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Old 05-18-2013, 09:56 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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29 or 30 is a bit old to be rocking the goth look..... not trying to judge here, just saying....

Move to a bigger metro, Stockton is a bit redneck for a black chick who dresses goth to be looking for non-black guys to meet.....

Best of luck to you.

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Old 05-18-2013, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Pa
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.: Gothic Singles, Dating, and Personals @ GothScene.com
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Old 05-18-2013, 11:52 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Move to a bigger metro, Stockton is a bit redneck for a black chick who dresses goth to be looking for non-black guys to meet.....

Best of luck to you.

Agree about this one. Stockton is not really your ideal city.
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Old 05-18-2013, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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You're a chubby, black, 30 year-old, goth emo school bus driver and you are posting a thread on City-Data looking for a white guy to date?

Seriously?
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Old 05-18-2013, 12:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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You're a chubby, black, 30 year-old, goth emo school bus driver and you are posting a thread on City-Data looking for a white guy to date?

Seriously?

She never said she was only looking for a white guy.
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Old 05-18-2013, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Originally Posted by A girl from Stockton,CA View Post
I've been in interracial relationships before but now I'm not having any luck. I'm chubby, I have a job as a school bus driver, I have a sweet personality, I don't have kids, and I'm kinda weird. Weird as in, I listen to rock music mainly but I like all kinds of music. I love thrift shops and have collected many treasures. I have a thing for Hello Kitty. I don't smoke but will if I'm stressed out enough. I'm still pursuing my education. I'm 29 and will be the big 3-0 next year. I am goth/emo and will sometimes dress in all black, wear platform shoes and have funny colors in my hair. I'm looking to move out of California and considering other cities.
Stay in California, you will have a better chance here.

Find a part time job at Hot Topic. Date younger guys.
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Old 05-18-2013, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I am a black woman and I only like east asian men! oddly, I have never attracted to any black or white men
I found it hard to believe.
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Old 05-18-2013, 01:06 PM
 
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You nee to go to over populated cities.

The smaller the town, the harder it will be.
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