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Thanks for your reply but do you have any idea what international lodging means? That 18 year old girl is an expert in international lodging. What is that? Anybody?
What do you mean by strange inexplicable schemes? You mean on my husbands part? Like what kind of scheme? We've known each other for 3years since 2010 prior to getting married.
Also you think that night he went into the hills, they did something to him spiritually? I was thinking he had sex with her because he came back acting different. But the day after that night I think this 18year old girl and her mother went out of town to a big Hindu convention for 2 days. Why? What did they do there? My husband converted to Christian btw, we married in an Indian Church. His family hates me now and he is rejected by his family for converting to Christianity and marrying me. So please help me out with some answers. Thanks
I think the poster that said an 18 year old girl is an international lodging expert was being sarcastic. That is usually not the purpose of an 18 year old girl in a developing country who greets foreigners an invites them to her home. She has another purpose for what she is doing but I'll let you figure that one out especially since you're married - you know all about the birds and the bees.
What I meant by strange, inexplicable schemes is trickery or deceit by "locals" committed against foreigners or guests visiting the area. Of course I don't know for sure but he could have had sex with girl out of some so-called ritual or based on the fact that she offered herself to him sexually and he accepted. Even if he hasn't gone that far, he has done something to open himself up to this weird behavior which has him mentally dazed, confused, and acting and talking out of character.
I am sorry to hear that his family hates you and has rejected him because of his conversion to Christianity and marrying you. That has to be hard for you and even harder for him. Try to get help from a local Christian pastor who will see both of you together. If you are serious about your belief as a Christian, this is the time to act on it. I'm hoping for the best for you both.
Ok thanks because it just sounded like she is a prostitute or somethingg because she and her family is poor and she is very friendly with all the foreigners and male foreigners there. She wanted my husbands Skype id and I was like why and she was like why not he's my brother. So basically I told her she could have mines but she never took it but this white male foreigner gave her his Skype id and she put it in.
Prescious,
I can't believe you're that slow to catch on. You've basically answered your own question. The girl showed what she is about and what she is interested in...MALES of any persuasion who are visiting. Hmm, I wonder why? Maybe it's because as you've stated she and her family are poor. So what's a poor, 18 year very friendly girl in a developing country to do when these males visitors with MONEY come to her area? Well, she can invite them up the hill with her or some party so that she can become even more friendly with them - if you know what I mean. As I said in the last post, you should know. Actually, whether you admit it or not, you do know which is why you were so threaten by her friendliness towards your husband. Whether the word prostitute is used or not, the results are the same when an 18 year old girl is inviting strange men to go up a hill with her alone and keeping a database of how to reach them in the future via Skyppe/text.
I think the poster that said an 18 year old girl is an international lodging expert was being sarcastic. That is usually not the purpose of an 18 year old girl in a developing country who greets foreigners an invites them to her home. She has another purpose for what she is doing but I'll let you figure that one out especially since you're married - you know all about the birds and the bees.
What I meant by strange, inexplicable schemes is trickery or deceit by "locals" committed against foreigners or guests visiting the area. Of course I don't know for sure but he could have had sex with girl out of some so-called ritual or based on the fact that she offered herself to him sexually and he accepted. Even if he hasn't gone that far, he has done something to open himself up to this weird behavior which has him mentally dazed, confused, and acting and talking out of character.
I am sorry to hear that his family hates you and has rejected him because of his conversion to Christianity and marrying you. That has to be hard for you and even harder for him. Try to get help from a local Christian pastor who will see both of you together. If you are serious about your belief as a Christian, this is the time to act on it. I'm hoping for the best for you both.
So you think he has done something to open up himself to this girl? But if so, then why is he saying that this is his sister? Then he was asking me if I know any guys to marry her so she can come to America? I said you know that if I find a guy for her that they will have sex with her right and he said yeah I know. Let me ask you something cause it just hit me, IF he had sex with this girl, and the mother found out, would that make the mother want my husband for her daughter since it is India?
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