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Old 05-20-2013, 10:46 AM
 
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so i always used to have this dilemma where i was the poster-woman for a "nice girl". i was sweet, always greeted guys with a smile, made eye contact listened intently to what they said, asked them thoughtful questions about their lives, did thoughtful things for them, made sure i didn't bug them at the wrong times etc.

instead i got over looked and guys would leave me to go chase the "bitchy" girls.

so i started to start experimenting a little and started to become more "bitchy". i am mean to guys, make fun of them, call them out on their b.s, put myself and my interests, don't care for how they are and BHAM. they are eating from the palms of my hands. i'm downright mean to a guy and he laughs and says "you're fun and feisty"

lol.

so men DO like *******.
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Old 05-20-2013, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Central, IL
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When searching for someone with a childs mentality, one must play childlrens games
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Old 05-20-2013, 10:50 AM
 
Location: NY
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I would have liked the "before" Maria better.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Jesus, not another one of these posts!
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:29 AM
 
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When searching for someone with a childs mentality, one must play childlrens games
see im not so sure that im "playing games". people who know me intimately know about my "feisty-ness"- i was just shy/ uncomfortable to be my true self and was instead this docile always polite person on dates.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Assertiveness is sexy in both men and women. This is nothing new
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:34 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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so i always used to have this dilemma where i was the poster-woman for a "nice girl". i was sweet, always greeted guys with a smile, made eye contact listened intently to what they said, asked them thoughtful questions about their lives, did thoughtful things for them, made sure i didn't bug them at the wrong times etc.

instead i got over looked and guys would leave me to go chase the "bitchy" girls.

so i started to start experimenting a little and started to become more "bitchy". i am mean to guys, make fun of them, call them out on their b.s, put myself and my interests, don't care for how they are and BHAM. they are eating from the palms of my hands. i'm downright mean to a guy and he laughs and says "you're fun and feisty"

lol.

so men DO like *******.
You're hanging out with the wrong guys.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:39 AM
 
Location: Upstate NY/NJ
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Men like beehotches to sleep with- that's it. Bring that into a relationship and it'll end quick.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:39 AM
 
Location: DFW
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so men DO like *******.
No... they don't. They just have sex with them and then send them home.

Best of luck.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:45 AM
 
Location: NY
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Women can attract men with different intentions using some different tactics. Depending on what your really looking for may depend on which strategies you want to employ.
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