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I'm a big proponent of pursuing...and it hasn't worked out for me at all. The guys I've pursued in the past just assumed I was desperate or that I could be 'used' for a physical only relationship since they already knew I had feelings for them. I have been put in the 'friend zone' by a bunch of guys though...so at least I have a few friends out of it
I don't pursue any longer but I will show interest and it's up to him to follow up.
Women can pursue men too. Do you all agree? I'm seeing that girls who go after what they want, provided the guy wants them too, have nothing to lose. If a guy knows he can have the girl back he REALLY wants, even if he's otherwise involved, he will take whom he really wants and it doesn't matter rules or no rules that the girl he really wants was the one to speak up. If you follow what I'm saying, that if a man wants you, he will be with you, period. He just might not always be the one who makes the move. Ladies, maybe you have nothing to lose if you like someone , provided he likes you too and is not on the fence. Comments . . .
I agree, 1000% percent! Ladies, if you like a guy, go for it and please don't be afraid to approach on your end; it may end up making his day, and making him the happiest guy in the whole world! (I can relate to this personally, as I have actually experienced it first-hand in the past )
Women can pursue men too. Do you all agree? I'm seeing that girls who go after what they want, provided the guy wants them too, have nothing to lose. If a guy knows he can have the girl back he REALLY wants, even if he's otherwise involved, he will take whom he really wants and it doesn't matter rules or no rules that the girl he really wants was the one to speak up. If you follow what I'm saying, that if a man wants you, he will be with you, period. He just might not always be the one who makes the move. Ladies, maybe you have nothing to lose if you like someone , provided he likes you too and is not on the fence. Comments . . .
Yes I agree.
But I don't pursue any men in real life. I lose interests very quickly.
I'm a good looking enough guy that some women turn around and pursue me, - it's just that they weren't attractive enough for me to be interested in them. The really hot asian women I want are very picky instead, and I just don't have the successful career to get them.
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(I can relate to this personally, as I have actually experienced it first-hand in the past 
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