Women can pursue too

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Originally Posted by calipoppy

I'm sorry but I am so tired of this feminist nonsense.

Yes, men will go out with, have sex with and even get into relationship with women who pursue them...but they usually do not marry those women. Men tend to not cherish what came so easily to them. A woman who pursues a man is NOT a challenge and most men love a challenge. The men who like to be pursued by women tend to be 'lazy' and generally are not strong men. These are the same men who want the woman to "wear the pants" and "bring home the bacon" while they sit around playing video games.

The feminist ideology has screwed up the dynamics been male/female relationship and it is such a travesty that so many women who bought into the nonsense are confused.

Guys are just as confused too which is why some of them are going there own way without women.

I like women who step up to the plate and approach a guy too. Nothing wrong with that. I don't buy this whole nonsense of a guy believing a woman is easy or less of a challenge when she takes interest in him with the first move.

It's enough of a challenge to keep a woman interested. The women who are aggressive will use and abuse a guy and look for the next one if she's not constantly stimulated by him.

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Originally Posted by JaybirdX

Either way its shaming no matter how you look at it. One side might see as needy one side will see you as slutting either way its sets up to shame women who approach which is just silly.

I've seen guys approach women on the desperate and needy side and while they get their fair share of criticism it no where near the crap women get for it.

I don't see a woman pursuing as shameful, needy or desperate (as long as it doesn't come off that way). The way I see it is they know what they want and they go after it. I like that in a woman. Fine, other people might have that kind of problem with but that's their opinion. Of course, with me, I tend to be a little skittish when it comes to things so if someone were to pursue me they'd have to be careful. They can't come on too strong otherwise I might be scared off.

Originally Posted by dejaentendu19

I think the type of girl that will pursue will be the dominate type in a relationship anyways in most cases. It may be getting closer to this, but the dolled up princess type is not going to pursue most of the time. The women that are pursuing are probably not going after the prom king/wall street guy.

I've heard of "princess types" that pursue. Of course they aren't the Paris Hiltons (or whatever prissy types you have in mind) of the world. They are, as you say, the dominant type. They'd be the people who are out getting things done. In fantasy character archetype terms, these "princesses" would be the people wearing armor and riding off to find their princes on their own.