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Old 05-21-2013, 09:02 PM
 
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I've wasted two and a half weeks getting to know who I thought was a nice down to earth girl..

It turns out she's a college drop out druggie. And she had an std.

This isn't the first time either...
The girl before had a kid..
And one before had herpes..
And another before also had a kid...
And another before had an eating disorder...

This is insane. Where are all the good girls?

The sad part is that I actually had a good girl once...who wanted me to marry her...and what did I do? I threw her back.

I don't like the bad girls, and the good girls don't like me...

Where to go from here?
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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Where are you meeting these girls?
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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^? women on craigslist aren't so forthcoming

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Old 05-21-2013, 09:14 PM
 
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Stop meeting women when you're drunk.

Stop getting drunk.
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:14 PM
 
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Welcome to the world of dating?

This is how you sift through people to find the one that fits you the best

Though I don't consider women with a child to be riff raff.
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:14 PM
 
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I would consider it 2.5 weeks well-spent. The more time you spend learning about people, the better you will get at sizing them up sooner.
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Are you on POF? Lmao!!!
My friend's guy friend met a chick from there and she was only off drugs for a year. Lost custody of her kids. Has an eating problem because of the drugs. Oh and was sexually molested.

That's a winner site.
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:17 PM
 
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2.5 weeks is nothing!
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:22 PM
 
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Eh, a habit of drinking a couple beers at the end of the day relegates me to std-ville? I'm drinking right now....let me look, strawberry daiquiri, 3.2% alc by vol...it might as well be soda..

I meet most girls through friends. Maybe I need new friends. But that's hard to do after a certain age...why is my peer group so, idk, whatever...
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Old 05-21-2013, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Eh, a habit of drinking a couple beers at the end of the day relegates me to std-ville? I'm drinking right now....let me look, strawberry daiquiri, 3.2% alc by vol...it might as well be soda..

I meet most girls through friends. Maybe I need new friends. But that's hard to do after a certain age...why is my peer group so, idk, whatever...
I'm sorry you're struggling with finding the right girl.

Sounds like you really have regrets about letting the one you could have had get away. Is it possible you are measuring all other girls by her and not giving them a fair chance? Just a thought.

Try getting involved in some kind of group/club/organization you have a real interest in. You might find you'll meet women better in a situation where people are coming together for a cause or purpose, not just to hook up or find a partner (like in a bar or at a party).

Hang in there!
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