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View Poll Results: Which one would you pick? (Assume all other personality characteristics are identical)
Amazingly beautiful, but cold in bed. Sex is infrequent and boring when it happens. 2 5.00%
Average looking at best (not ugly)...but ready to go 3 to 5 times a week & is very enthusiastic, sensual, & loves sex WITH YOU. 20 50.00%
I'll never have either so who cares! 4 10.00%
Both! 2 5.00%
This is a stupid/shallow poll. 12 30.00%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-22-2013, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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"Ready to go 3 to 5 times a week"?? Why the low standard? 3-5 times/DAY, OP! Wow, you've really been picking the wrong women! Or maybe you're the one who's a relatively cold fish...?

FYI, we had a poll like this last year: Hot-looking but lackluster in bed vs. plain/average-looking, but very into sex. Option #2 won by a long shot, in spite of several guys saying they want both hot-looking AND horny.


Well, I'm thinking long-term. My wife and I were almost at the several times/day frequency early on, but I've yet to see a long-term relationship (my own or others) where that kind of intensity lasts more than a few months.
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Old 05-22-2013, 09:51 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Frequency isn't that important to me. Quality over quantity. But of course, I'd rather the fox than the cold fish.
I agree with that as well...but I think there is a point where it doesn't matter how good it is if it only happens twice a year!

Although in my experiences, once you start getting to less than once every couple weeks, it's usually because of a very low libido on the part of one partner or the other...which usually also translates to fairly passionless sex.
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Old 05-22-2013, 10:13 AM
 
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If most guys had a choice between Good sex with An average woman and "meh" sex with lets say Halle Berry most would take Halle. I mean...You have your entire life to have good sex with average women, this is America but how many times will you ever bang a 10? Or come even close?
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Old 05-22-2013, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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Sex is like money - it's not a big deal until you're not getting any.
Yes..there is a lot of wisdom in those words
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Old 05-22-2013, 12:38 PM
 
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If most guys had a choice between Good sex with An average woman and "meh" sex with lets say Halle Berry most would take Halle. I mean...You have your entire life to have good sex with average women, this is America but how many times will you ever bang a 10? Or come even close?
Most guys on here will never be within 10 feet of a 9 or 10. I really can't answer this poll since I haven't had both, but for a short while, I 'd take the hot woman. If its a long-term relationship, Im probably taking the average girl. A hot woman who isn't having sex with you is useless. Its like having 10 million dollars, but its locked in a trust that you won't get for 30 years.
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Old 05-22-2013, 01:12 PM
 
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None of the above -- physical intimacy is not important to me, pre-marriage. A genuinely nice, affectionate girl is really all I need to be happy
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Old 05-22-2013, 01:53 PM
 
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Honestly, it's horny. Hot girls come and go...but if I'm in the mood, I'm trying a lot harder than just if a hot girl happens to be around.

Also, the best sex I've ever had was with a girl that wasn't particularly 'hot'...more of a cute/demure type...nerdy even...

And the hottest girl ever, well the sex was good, but it wasn't the best sex ever. The other girl was a lot louder..which made it good for me..
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Old 05-22-2013, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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None of the above -- physical intimacy is not important to me, pre-marriage. A genuinely nice, affectionate girl is really all I need to be happy
Come back 4 years after marriage and tell us that again.

I'm teasing - but I'm not...lol.
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Old 05-22-2013, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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Honestly, it's horny. Hot girls come and go...but if I'm in the mood, I'm trying a lot harder than just if a hot girl happens to be around.

Also, the best sex I've ever had was with a girl that wasn't particularly 'hot'...more of a cute/demure type...nerdy even...

And the hottest girl ever, well the sex was good, but it wasn't the best sex ever. The other girl was a lot louder..which made it good for me..

Have we dated before?






(FYI that's NOT an invitation-I'm married-but you did just describe me!)
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Old 05-22-2013, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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Obvious answer: the second option BY FAR
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