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I've always thought that if you had sex like every night, or like most nights, you might just get starting sick of it or it would at least seem less fun, kind of like having chocolate cake every day. If you did it say 2-3 a week at most, or even once a week, it would be more special. Maybe I have a low sex drive (I'm not like some guys who need to get relief daily or more) but I actually don't think I'd want to have sex that often. I also don't like the idea of sharing a bed with someone every night. I wouldn't mind even just having sex and then having separate bedrooms. I know that sounds strange and unromantic but i like my personal space. I'm not sure if I'll even marry. Of course I've never been in a RS or had regular sex so it's all speculation, but I'm just curious about this.
I actually have some medical issues (that I won't discuss on this board) but that's another story...but still, I actually find the idea of people having one or more times every day sort of strange.
There's nothing wrong with having sex every day, but I think that would make a person pretty high on the libido scale. It's usually pointless to compare the number of times you want to have sex to the number of times other couples do because it's such a personal preference. I know a couple that has sex once every two months and they are happy. I think its best if your desires come close to matching the desires of your partner. A person who wants sex every day dating someone who wants it once a month is headed for certain disaster IMO. Yet it happens because often the low libido person mimics a high libido at first--then it falls off to what is normal for them after awhile. Trouble ensues.
As far as the separate beds are concerned there are some couples that actually do that. Don't let someone else define what *your* relationship should be--plenty will.
This is where you see the differences in various people and their sex drive.
Can you have to much sex?
Personally, not really....
Do get sick of it if you have it every day?
not really....
I would add the following question to prelude the first two questions:
Are you sexually compatible with your partner?
If the answer is no, then I think it is possible the answer to the OP's questions may change.
Also, the OP mentions health issues. For people that are 100% healthy, physically and mentally with no severe hang ups, IMO, sex is typically welcome anytime and anywhere between consenting adults.
But if health becomes an issue, or mental road blocks occur, then frequency and satisfaction will absolutely be an issue.
I've always thought that if you had sex like every night, or like most nights, you might just get starting sick of it or it would at least seem less fun, kind of like having chocolate cake every day. If you did it say 2-3 a week at most, or even once a week, it would be more special. Maybe I have a low sex drive (I'm not like some guys who need to get relief daily or more) but I actually don't think I'd want to have sex that often. I also don't like the idea of sharing a bed with someone every night. I wouldn't mind even just having sex and then having separate bedrooms. I know that sounds strange and unromantic but i like my personal space. I'm not sure if I'll even marry. Of course I've never been in a RS or had regular sex so it's all speculation, but I'm just curious about this.
I actually have some medical issues (that I won't discuss on this board) but that's another story...but still, I actually find the idea of people having one or more times every day sort of strange.
Tri, you have no clue. This OP is utter nonsense. Oh well.
It's very difficult to have too much sex - the body is self-limiting in that regard ... well, at least for men. I won't presume to speak for women!
As for getting sick of it? No. We've had sex almost every day (and quite frequently twice or more) for 13 years. I guess we both have a high sex drive and enough creativity to keep things interesting.
The only thing you can get sick of, is having sex the same way every day
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