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Old 05-20-2013, 04:53 PM
 
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Later, I told her that she hurt me. She said she was sorry, and that I had insulted her earlier by calling her a gold digger. I didn't...I just asked if she'd marry me if I were a doctor...

During the incident in question, I might've been slightly drunk, it may have been around midnight, and I might've assured her that I had condoms...

Anyway, a couple days later, we 'decided' to be friends...

Where do I go from here? I don't know if I like her or if I'm just messing around because, you know, 'why not?'... I don't want to tell her that because if I do like her, I don't want her to think she was just someone random.

In easier terms, how do I say 'yes, I want to have sex with you, and yes, I'd stick around afterwards if you're not completely psycho?'....without using those words?
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:56 PM
 
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Get to know her better before having sex with her. Make reasonable sure she's not psycho, THEN proceed...

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Old 05-20-2013, 04:57 PM
 
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Later, I told her that she hurt me. She said she was sorry, and that I had insulted her earlier by calling her a gold digger. I didn't...I just asked if she'd marry me if I were a doctor...

During the incident in question, I might've been slightly drunk, it may have been around midnight, and I might've assured her that I had condoms...

Anyway, a couple days later, we 'decided' to be friends...

Where do I go from here? I don't know if I like her or if I'm just messing around because, you know, 'why not?'... I don't want to tell her that because if I do like her, I don't want her to think she was just someone random.

In easier terms, how do I say 'yes, I want to have sex with you, and yes, I'd stick around afterwards if you're not completely psycho?'....without using those words?
A girl called me creepy....

Welcome to the club...

...that I'm somehow not allowed in.

Hey, a girl called me creepy behind my back, does that count?


I'd probably used the bolded words. If she called me creepy.
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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"In easier terms, how do I say 'yes, I want to have sex with you, and yes, I'd stick around afterwards if you're not completely psycho?'....without using those words?"


You could try telling her you like her and would like to take her out?
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:58 PM
 
Location: IN A COOKIE JAR
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Um, dude you were creepy. You insinuated that she was a gold digger by asking if she'd marry you if you were doctor. DUH. Then you assured her that you had condoms. You were a jerk to her.

Yikes, glad I am an older married woman who won't be meeting you in bar. Stay away from my beautiful daughter though Dub Dub, you say things like that to her, she might punch you in the face.

What is really sad is that she still slept with you. She obviously has very low self esteem.
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:03 PM
 
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I don't know if what you said to her was creepy, but it certainly deserved a jerk response.

She didn't want to have sex with you, and then you ask if she'd marry you if you were a doctor? How do you get from that to that?
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:04 PM
 
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Stop getting drunk.
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:06 PM
 
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I don't know if what you said to her was creepy, but it certainly deserved a jerk response.

She didn't want to have sex with you, and then you ask if she'd marry you if you were a doctor? How do you get from that to that?
Maybe she meant he was being a drunk creep, rather than that he was a creepy stalker type.
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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Women change after you have sex with them...the feeling is that she'd go from the nice quiet girl she is now to some sort of passive aggressive terror making snide remarks designed to attack my ego. She's capable of it, I sense, and she's started to show signs of it, but maybe it's because I've been escalating too strong?

Not that it actually matters, it's just she's pissing me off enough to make me make the effort...
The whole 'before I got some, so I didn't really want it...now you won't give it to me, so I want it even if it comes with a relationship' thing...
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:08 PM
 
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Sing the Creep song by Radiohead to her and move onto the next one.
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