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I like skinny men. My top preference is men who are very thin, under 6ft, and have some bicep definition. I don't turn down skinny men just for being skinny. It's a huge plus if you don't hide under baggy clothing (seriously - if you're skinny, wearing clothing that doesn't fit you is going to make you look like a 15 year old who isn't sure what to do with his body. Not saying you do this, just that I see it occasionally).
I dislike 6 packs and muscles that don't look natural on people's frames.
So, you prefer the first picture over the second picture above?
Is the V thing you guys are talking about the that line in front of your waste that extends down into your groin? If so I have had one for a while that I've developed from my routine and did not think that women found that attractive. Then again, I'm not working out to impress anyone either.
I like skinny men. My top preference is men who are very thin, under 6ft, and have some bicep definition. I don't turn down skinny men just for being skinny. It's a huge plus if you don't hide under baggy clothing (seriously - if you're skinny, wearing clothing that doesn't fit you is going to make you look like a 15 year old who isn't sure what to do with his body. Not saying you do this, just that I see it occasionally).
I dislike 6 packs and muscles that don't look natural on people's frames.
So you like a soldier's physique? With all the endurance work they do, they are pretty lean.
I've been slim all my life (its in my family's jeans), and the other day I was at the gym talking to this guy i see there sometimes and he said he noticed how much more attention he received from women after he put on weight a few years ago. Then he said if I bulk up I'll notice the same thing because being stocky is more masculine and dominaant.. and that being lean/skinny for a man is a bad thing because only women are supposed to be slim. Also he said in the dating world slim men are at the bottom of the barrell and are seen undesirable as fat women.
So now I'm determined to put on weight and look more alpha. This guy I was speaking to was pretty big (think of brock lesnar) and i'd like to look like that one day but it might not be in my genes cause all my family seen to be ectomorphs.( (I'm only 5 10 and weight 154)
so my questions are...
are women turned off by men who are skinny/slim?
does being slim hurt a man's chances when trying to attract women?
are there any men here who noticed an increase in female attention after they put on weight/bulked up?
Dumb women are impressed by muscles.
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