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Old 06-04-2013, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Chicago area
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Hmmmmm. I'm still trying to figure out which category I would have fallen in when I was younger. Stereotypes are so biased and shallow.
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Old 06-04-2013, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Toronto
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The one closest to my SO is #11. Prude but not boring. I caught him watching porn a couple of years after we got married. He got all upset and uptight. So cute! He's all Christian with 'porn is wrong'. I totally jumped him. He has been loosening up with time. I've had fun working on him, but sometimes I miss the uptight husband that could tease and make squirm.
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Old 06-04-2013, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Pa
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The one closest to my SO is #11. Prude but not boring. I caught him watching porn a couple of years after we got married. He got all upset and uptight. So cute! He's all Christian with 'porn is wrong'. I totally jumped him. He has been loosening up with time. I've had fun working on him, but sometimes I miss the uptight husband that could tease and make squirm.
That is cute. Lol
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Old 06-04-2013, 11:37 AM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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Good numbers
I like 'em
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Which one is your girl friend?
Sweeeeet gouge..I mean that in the nicest way possible of course
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The only thing I know right away by just looking at a man is simply

A. wow, he is sexy and handsome
B. Nah, not my type

Other than that, I am completely clueless about men.
I am kind of the male version of you
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Old 06-04-2013, 12:02 PM
 
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The only ones that can stand me are #3s and #4s.
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Old 06-04-2013, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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BS. I can count on one hand how many guys I've slept with and one was a ONS. When I was single, my date's odds for getting laid weren't very good.


Men and women don't fit into nice little categories. Before I even became sexually active, the amount of times I got called a **** was ridiculous.
Yep. I had a HORRIBLE reputation in High School (There was a rumor going around I had HIV/AIDS because I slept around so much) and I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 19 and out of High School.

One of the biggest sweethearts I know is well into the three figures and you would NEVER guess it by the way she dressed or acted. She comes across as a cute, sweet, feminine, country type gal. Meanwhile, because I have big boobs and tattoos it's assumed I'm easy and sleep around, which I don't at all, but she's the one with the perfect reputation.

So yeah, you can't tell by just looking at someone whether or not they're promiscuous.

As for the list, I'm a #10 mixed with a #2. Friendzone ahoy!
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Old 06-04-2013, 01:31 PM
 
Location: CA
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Most of these are problematic if you stick a woman in a category too soon. I know that's what stereotypes amount to, but you may be writing off potential in people over some very silly things.

I have a friend who I've heard men describe as high maintenance. She's very fashionable & creative & always looks like she has just stepped out of a magazine. However, she is not remotely snobby & she buys all her own stuff. We've talked about the future and her ideals for it are very modest & non-materialistic. Fashion is just an interest of hers & she chooses to spend her money there & live simply in other ways. She spends a lot of time doing volunteer humanitarian work, which people never think about fashionable types (always get written off as shallow).

I suppose I come to the defense here because I've probably been written off in a similar manner, but am extremely similar to her in terms of my actual values & lifestyle. Basically, you're judging a book by its cover if you assume a bunch of qualities just because someone has a sense of style...

To me, high maintenance means EMOTIONALLY high maintenance, ie. demanding a lot of attention & making you walk on eggshells, and the women I've seen like that are rarely fashionable types. The biggest drama queens I've known are ironically plain janes who are jealous & insecure & very naggy/demanding when in a relationship.
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Old 06-04-2013, 01:33 PM
 
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LOL Raene, good question.


#1 The one night stand woman.

I've never had one night stand. So I am nobody's one night stand.

#4 The unattainable woman. Some guys think I am this

#5 The woman who thinks she’s hot stuff. LOL, when I act like a bi*ch because I am seriously pmsing, I have been accused, "You think you are all that, you are not. Get over yourself!" couple of times by this one guy friend of mine. Lesson learned by me. (never act I am all that because I am not. LOL)

#6 The high maintenance woman. Many guys think I am this until they spend time with me. Then they think I am dorky and geeky and perhaps I am one of the most down to earth girl.

#7 The off-limits woman. I am this to a lot of guy friends of mine because I am never available.

#8 The gold digger. I've been accused of being a gold digger. Many times.


#12 The perfect girl. well, before my first boyfriend committed suicide, he told me I was the perfect girl for him. He would kill himself if I chose to leave him. His words and action hurt me till today. So I don't want to be anybody's perfect girl.
Most guys know that if they loose a hot awsome women the statistical probability of finding another is slim to none. I can see why a guy would commit suicide.

For me I would just keep increasing the risk levels of my aerobatics, I would either hit the ground and that would be it or I would get good enough to be a minor celebrity and could attract a new woman. Though that option is not avalible to everyone.

I have never been with a good looking woman so I dont know, perhaps its better that way since even if I did it would likely never happen again and I would be hooked. I dont know if it has always been this ungodly hard to find women through out history or if this is a modern thing.

The only problem I see with suicide (and this is just my own personal beliefs), is that its not clear if you will make heaven if you do that, which is the goal if you just lost something that is so rare on earth and you want it back. Perhaps he could have just started high risk activities like sky diving, etc.

Its too bad that Jesus did not give us more details about heaven, it would make it easier to sell it. It does say there wont be "marriage", does that mean you wont be morally held to one woman or that there wont be sex lol.

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Old 06-04-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Complete nonsense.
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Old 06-04-2013, 03:01 PM
 
Location: The Valley of the Sun
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#1 The one night stand woman.
Who the hell am I to judge anyone. If a girl wants to sleep with lots of guys that's her thing.

#2 The nice girl.
After being raised by an angry Type A superbeotch that hated men and then marrying a woman of similar demeanor, I'll take a nice girl any day. IMO, a woman can never be to nice.

#3 The backup woman.
???? This women sounds like a friend, not a potential lover.

#4 The unattainable woman.
Unless she's married, no woman is unattainable. I have no such fear and would not hesitate to ask this woman out if she indicated to me that she's interested.

#5 The woman who thinks she’s hot stuff.
Unfortunately I've met many many women in my time that have this kind of ego and attitude. I wont even talk to them.

#6 The high maintenance woman.
See my response to #5.

#7 The off-limits woman.
I'd never make a pass at a friends girlfriend.

#8 The gold digger.
See my response to #5 and yes, a gold digger is a bad person with low moral character.

#9 Sugar momma.
I dont think I could date a woman just for her money. Goes against my moral code.

#11 The prude.
Ugghhh. Boring!!!

#12 The perfect girl.
It's been my experience that no one is perfect.
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