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Old 06-06-2013, 08:04 PM
 
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Could you date or consider a LTR with someone who absolutely could not sleep with someone else in the same bed? Someone who at the end of the night would either go to their own place, or relocate to another room.
No.

I don't even understand couples who have king-sized beds.
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Old 06-06-2013, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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No.

I don't even understand couples who have king-sized beds.
I fall out of bed while I sleep sometimes. I fall out of bed less often in a bigger bed. Usually kids grow out of this. I never grew out of that. And I'm not getting a guard rail because I'm a grown woman and not a 2 year old.
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Old 06-06-2013, 08:16 PM
 
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Sleeping with my wife was the biggest adjustment for me to marriage. Total sleep deprivation initially.
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Old 06-06-2013, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I sleep well with another person there beside me. I don't move around a lot when I sleep.
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Old 06-06-2013, 09:12 PM
 
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Could you date or consider a LTR with someone who absolutely could not sleep with someone else in the same bed? Someone who at the end of the night would either go to their own place, or relocate to another room.
Nope...I want those lady curves wrapped all over me. I want to smell her hair and skin from all those girly lotions and shampoos they use too.

Rub "animal's" hairy chest too.

Me like it! lol
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Old 06-06-2013, 10:21 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Could you date or consider a LTR with someone who absolutely could not sleep with someone else in the same bed? Someone who at the end of the night would either go to their own place, or relocate to another room.
Nope. At least, not for a long-term, serious relationship. I'm fine with dating and not always spending the night together, and going back to my own place, or him going back to his some nights...fine by me, but I also do like nights spent together some of the time.

When living together? Same bed, please and thank you. Sleeping together is something I enjoy too much to forfeit it. Compatibility here is necessary.

I've also determined that I can't date or be in an LTR with touch-me-not, tactile-defensive types of people...that aspect of a relationship is too important to me to resign myself to being with someone who is averse to touch.

My SO and I WILL always have access to a queen size bed, minimum, though (currently, mine fits that bill, his does not). Two dogs and two people do not work in anything smaller than a queen, we've found.
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Old 06-06-2013, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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I also have never fallen out of bed in my life.
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Old 06-06-2013, 10:30 PM
 
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Could you date or consider a LTR with someone who absolutely could not sleep with someone else in the same bed? Someone who at the end of the night would either go to their own place, or relocate to another room.
I tend to gravitate to another room... it's an energy thing.
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Old 06-06-2013, 10:35 PM
 
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I sleep in the guest room a lot of nights because my fiance doesn't like the tv on and I like watching it to wind down. I still make sure I sleep with her 3 or 4 nights a week for her sake. I do sleep better when I can roll around without worrying about waking her up.
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Old 06-06-2013, 10:40 PM
 
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I sleep in the guest room a lot of nights because my fiance doesn't like the tv on and I like watching it to wind down. I still make sure I sleep with her 3 or 4 nights a week for her sake. I do sleep better when I can roll around without worrying about waking her up.
nice id-name
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