The 1-10 rating scale of attractiveness (man, hubby, American, friend)
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I know. What one person thinks is plain is wonderful to another. What do you find attractive in men? What would make a man a 10?
To me a 10 is a man that is kind, smart, considerate, not a pervert, faithful, doesn't stare at other women with drool hanging out of his mouth, not a sexist, not an abuser, and treats me like a princess.
I have dated men and people have asked me why I am dating them because they are "ugly." It was because of the above reasons.
Looks fade, but good people (usually) will always be good people.
I agree. There are some women I am extremely attracted to, some I'm attracted to somewhat, and some I'm not attracted to at all. And, it can depend on the day, on what she's wearing, what kind of mood I'm in. ...
I feel the same way. One time I saw an actor in a movie and found him really attractive. A few months later I watched the same movie and didn't think anything of the guy. Not sure why that is.
I've also changed my opinion of someone's looks if I find out he is a complete jerk. He will actually appear ugly to me.
What do you look at when considering a man a certain number and a woman a certain number? I have gathered height is more important for men than women, women are easier able to get away with being short for example. Though it seems men are more able to get away with being older even if it results in grey hair, for example. Weight? Do men care more about a woman's body or face? How important is hair for each sex? And on the body, do men care about breasts more than anything so if a woman has big ones (for example) does that get her more highly rated even if the breasts are fake? How do you calculate this number for men and women and how does male or female figure in with different traits?
I can't care less about breasts. About face and hair too. Tall, athletic, pale skin, broad shoulders and hips, rounded hips. It is what I count. But it is just me.
Its very important to know your own number so that your not over shooting on who you are looking for, that could lead to a lot of failure and frustration.
Its very important to know your own number so that your not over shooting on who you are looking for, that could lead to a lot of failure and frustration.
Yeah, guys here are talking about seeing 10s out and about in Iowa. This means they have no clue what a a five is let alone a 10.
anything above a 7 in looks is extremely rare in all but the major cites in the right spots...
No, they shouldn't. Then they won't be willing to make any improvements. Maybe that's why we are one of the most obese countries in the world, it's so common for people to think it's OK to be fat. Then you get all these girls saying curves are sexy. When in reality, it seems like 90% of girls saying this are obese or at least overweight.
Look up Rosa Acosta. She has CURVES
There are girls looking like Rosie O'Donnel saying, "ooooh my curves are sexy, just like Marilyn Monroe, curves are in" Trying to boost their own self image and make it seem like they are the norm. Instead of exercising and eating right, they would rather try and make themselves seem better, or bring more people to their level.
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Originally Posted by lastwomanstanding
Confidence goes a long way for both sexes.
So does being realistic. Some men and women have far TOO much confidence, which can be one of the most major turn offs.
I've known some unattractive girls that acted like they were elite super models. While they could be good friends or even datable still with a normal attitude, they have this "my **** don't stink." attitude..
Then, what's even more amusing. Is the girls like this that thing that just because they can get a lot of guys to sleep with them, they must be super hot. NEWS FLASH. Guys are dogs. Tons of guys will put their thing in anything with a whole. Being a girl and having a lot of guys sleep with you does not mean you are wanted.
They confuse having guys want to sleep with them, with guys wanting to date/spend their lives with them....
The last 2 paragraphs in my opinion are not "as" true for guys. I don't think it's as easy for guys to get laid as it is for females, even IF they lower their standards..
Example - Girls is a 7, if she propositioned 10 guys, that were 5's, for sex, a lot would say yes. Maybe 6 or 7?
If a guy is a 7, and he propositioned 10 girls, that were 5's, for sex, he would probably be lucky to get 1 or 2...
What do you look at when considering a man a certain number and a woman a certain number? I have gathered height is more important for men than women, women are easier able to get away with being short for example. Though it seems men are more able to get away with being older even if it results in grey hair, for example. Weight? Do men care more about a woman's body or face? How important is hair for each sex? And on the body, do men care about breasts more than anything so if a woman has big ones (for example) does that get her more highly rated even if the breasts are fake? How do you calculate this number for men and women and how does male or female figure in with different traits?
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