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Old 06-11-2013, 08:46 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Wait, so HPV just develops spontaneously?
"By age 50, at least 4 out of every 5 women will have been infected with HPV at one point in their lives"

CDC - Basic Information about HPV-Associated Cancers
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Old 06-11-2013, 08:53 PM
 
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"By age 50, at least 4 out of every 5 women will have been infected with HPV at one point in their lives"

CDC - Basic Information about HPV-Associated Cancers
So it's not spontaneous. You must sleep with an infected person to get it. Obviously sleeping with different people, or sleeping with a person who sleep with different people will put you at risk.
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Old 06-11-2013, 10:32 PM
 
Location: USA
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A vagina is a vagina is a vagina. As long as he was safe about it who cares????
Well, all vaginas feel different to me so I would not agree 100%. As far as safe goes a proffesional in nevada is probably more safe than picking up someone randomly from a bar.
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Old 06-12-2013, 01:50 AM
 
Location: Somewhere
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Gives a whole meaning to "Don't ask don't tell". One of my neighbors sons broadcasted him and his buddies trip to a brothel when he was stationed overseas on Facebook. Good move
Facebook...
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Old 06-12-2013, 02:04 AM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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When you find out a guy has slept with a prostitute in the past..









Would that be an
instant dealbreaker?
No, of course not. Why should it be?
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Old 06-12-2013, 02:08 AM
 
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This is what I figured. Going to a prostitute hardly means a guy can't get a woman. It just means he wanted sex. The same way a woman having a ONS is capable of finding a relationship. She just wanted sex.
What is more important to you: the ability of a man to get a woman to have sex or the morals of a person?

How would you feel about paying a guy to have sex with you when you know that guy is not attracted to you? When you know he is probably an addict or someone who was brought to the industry by force or sexual abuse? Would you feel good about yourself?

Most men who hire a prostitute more than once might look decent but they usually have empathy and personality issues. I say more than once because there are men who do it once and feel so bad for the prostitute that they never repeat it again.
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Old 06-12-2013, 03:00 AM
 
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I think it's very different! A prostitute will probably have sex with multiple people on the same day, so their number would be huge, plus you are paying for it. The whole thing is just gross.
If the guy cant get a ONS or a FWB then prostitute is kinda all that's left if he wants to get laid. One is for people with options the other is a last resort for someone without options. At the end of the day your still having casual sex and depending on what you have the prostitute do to you it may not be that gross.

A hot woman knows she can go out and have any guy she wants so the parallel for a guy is once he is comfortable with hookers he knows he can always just call one up.
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Old 06-12-2013, 03:08 AM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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If the guy cant get a ONS or a FWB then prostitute is kinda all that's left
if he wants to get laid. One is for people with options the other is a last
resort for someone without options.
I disagree. If a man is out of town on business or whatever, he may not want to put in the time or effort. Have a girl sent up to the room...no fuss, no bother.
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Old 06-12-2013, 03:10 AM
 
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I disagree. If a man is out of town on business or whatever, he may not want to put in the work. Have a girl sent up to the room...no fuss, no bother.
That's true but for some guys its really the only option, for some guys putting in the "work" can mean 6 months or a year of celibacy for most people that's not really acceptable.
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Old 06-12-2013, 03:20 AM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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I was merely disputing the claim that it's a question of no other options; that it's the last resort of a man who can't get laid otherwise. Life isn't always black or white. People can go to prostitutes simply because it's easier, with no strings attached and no games to play.
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