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Yeah, and those women have issues too. Sounds like you just got hurt a few times and you're not enough of a man to get over it, so you place the blame on AN ENTIRE GENDER because of your own short comings.
There are some women on here that share your exact mind set and it shows. Don't worry, they also look pathetic.
I don't know about pathetic, but it's unattractive in both genders and people will avoid you if you're like this.
I was not suggesting you were either of those things. I hope my post did not give the impression I was.
The "fact" however - since you like facts - is that the world is awash with people you and I might judge to be exceedingly lacking in "good looks" and yet they have partners. So whatever the reason is for you personally being single it is an over-simplification to arbitrarly pick one feature of your existence and assert that it is the sole cause.
Alas without knowing you I can not even begin to make guesses as to what IS the reason. And worse - as a species we are generally poor at accurate self evaluation - and as such I have seen and heard of any number of people who are unattractive to the opposite sex for a reason they have not even begun to guess at themselves yet because their application of self evaluation has simply failed to notice it.
self evaluation results in depression , its a dangerous thing
If an individual sucks, self-awareness is good, there's no gain in denial or ignorance.
I usually have a suspicion of those who take it upon themselves to engage in amateur psychoanalysis of others , smacks of arrogance and presumptuousness
Most likely there are guys who have their life in order but don't get gals just like there are gals who have their life in order but don't get guys. In my experiences getting a gal or guy depends on attraction and appeal not having your life in order. I highly doubt most guys are approaching based on whether a gal has debt or not.
Oddly enough, having your life in order is not all that important to attracting young, attractive women. In factt in your age bracket, youd have much more luck if you were a deadbeat or a criminal. Sad but true. Dont worry, by the time you hit 35, same women will be back oaround and will gladly settle deown with a guy like you. Your steady paycheck wont seem quite as "boring" at that point.
Having your life in order is not a quality that ensures a guy gets the girl. There is no such thing as perfection when it comes to ones life...no ones life is in true order. You have to have the basics down...like the ability to have a bit of cash in your pocket...and being a positive - thinking and caring man...The only quality that a man really needs after the basics is a nature that dictates that he LOVES and respects woman...Woman might want a guy who is in "order" - but that is wishful thinking...Some of the finest woman in the world can be seduced by guys who are totally out of order.
Guys that refuse to lower their standards when they are not getting results, its been said a million times on these threads that almost everything boils down to how attractive your face is. So perhaps save up the 20 grand or what ever it costs and get the plastic surgery.
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