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Old 06-12-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Forget the advice about early masturbation (although it wouldn't hurt).

Wouldn't it be more fun if you and her did a little mutual masturbation to start your sex session ?
That's the way many good lovers like to start.

Then you can build from there getting creative and the final act would then be good old fashioned SEX.

Google Magic Wand and buy one. Even guys like the wand.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Good song.

Who says I want it to take less time?
Ahahaha.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:44 PM
 
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And guess what, she would have been correct! You seem very unconcerned about her pleasure, and seem much too wrapped up in your own. You are on the road to being a selfish and terrible lover. If you care.
So much for trying to pretend I'm a master at it. While I didn't exactly told her ''I've been around the block'', I would try to act like it esp. with the ''I can last more than an hour'' comment I made a while back. It's not as easy as I thought. Fortunately she didn't question me further.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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And guess what, she would have been correct! You seem very unconcerned about her pleasure, and seem much too wrapped up in your own. You are on the road to being a selfish and terrible lover. If you care.
Exactly.

It's not a performance. Right now you're psyching yourself out and being your own worst enemy. Focus on who you are with and what is beautiful about her, what she enjoys.

By the way, foreplay is what helps women enjoy the experience. I'm confident she doesn't want you hammering away for a half-hour.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:46 PM
 
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Good song.

Who says I want it to take less time?
Well, if you want to have AT LEAST 5 OR 6 yourself.....it's going to have to be fast in the 1/4.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:49 PM
 
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Forget the advice about early masturbation (although it wouldn't hurt).

Wouldn't it be more fun if you and her did a little mutual masturbation to start your sex session ?
That's the way many good lovers like to start.

Then you can build from there getting creative and the final act would then be good old fashioned SEX.

Google Magic Wand and buy one. Even guys like the wand.
Yes, it would be fun. I want to get over it already. Then I assume it'll get better as we get to do it more. I'll master this soon.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:49 PM
 
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Ahahaha.
Got Racing fuel...??

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Old 06-12-2013, 07:51 PM
 
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Yes, it would be fun. I want to get over it already. Then I assume it'll get better as we get to do it more. I'll master this soon.
Please don't worry. You young guys always freak out too much over it. You can't be good at anything without practice.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Got Racing fuel...??
The gas cap is off.
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Old 06-12-2013, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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So much for trying to pretend I'm a master at it. While I didn't exactly told her ''I've been around the block'', I would try to act like it esp. with the ''I can last more than an hour'' comment I made a while back. It's not as easy as I thought. Fortunately she didn't question me further.
There's no need to lie. If she really cares about you she'll help you through it.
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