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I can't tell what she thinks either. Maybe that you were talking too much.
You asked to meet her right? To be all "vague and nonchalant"? To boast how happy you are now?
Wierd.
Like i told 5 other posters lol
Yes i invited her.
But she was the one who asked all the questions
she did most of the talking.
I got to the point and that's that.
I wasn't talking to much at all. I said just enough
I'm not boasting.
I'm generally happy. I didn't know that was weird to be happy ? lol
Sheesh you guys will find anything to call me out on huh ? lol
I BET IF I SAID I JUST WON THE LOTTO
YOU'D SAY. "BUT YOU KNOW YOU DON'T GET ALL THE MONEY UPFRONT RIGHT ? "
WHO CARES ! ITS THE LOTTO LOL
thats how i feel. who cares about the technical aspects.
i was super depressed and an emotional reck not to long ago when
it came to interacting with my ex. For me to feel good about myself afterwards is a great accomplishment for me
Yes i invited her.
But she was the one who asked all the questions
she did most of the talking. I got to the point and that's that.
I wasn't talking to much at all. I said just enough
I'm not boasting.
I'm generally happy. I didn't know that was weird to be happy ? lol
Sheesh you guys will find anything to call me out on huh ? lol
I BET IF I SAID I JUST WON THE LOTTO
YOU'D SAY. "BUT YOU KNOW YOU DON'T GET ALL THE MONEY UPFRONT RIGHT ? "
WHO CARES ! ITS THE LOTTO LOL
thats how i feel. who cares about the technical aspects.
i was super depressed and an emotional reck not to long ago when
it came to interacting with my ex. For me to feel good about myself afterwards is a great accomplishment for me
GIVE ME A BREAK !
^^^I guess that is the part I'm missing.
What was the point, exactly? How fabulous your life is now? How much you've "changed"?
I don't know if your being sarcastic or you geniunely what to know what i've learned but
I've learned a ton sir.
Everything you're suppose to learn when you make mistakes.
I learned from my mistakes.
If your looking for a long speech about love and how i'm going to change for the better
i'm sorry you wont get one here. That speech is for my Ex .
I'm not being sarcastic at all, my young man. I'm actually amazed how fast your transformation took.
Personally, I repeat the same mistakes (for good measure) so i can really learn from it.
What was the point, exactly? How fabulous your life is now? How much you've "changed"?
Nope. I said nothing about how much i changed to her.
The "point" is the subject that was discussed .
Which was normal catch up conversation.
I don't think you get the hole idea of this interaction.
I'll break it down to you in kindergarten terms.
When you go to school and it's raining outside.
Recess is inside. Meanwhile your having a great time playing with toys
and annoying your teacher. & the playground is just getting rained on
The playground isn't a bad playground. It isn't a mean playground but because
it's being rained on. Noones wants anything to do with it.
Guess what ? I'm the playground.
I was in a such a stormy situation
that noone really wanted anything to do with me.
I didnt have my stuff together
i couldnt let people see how awesome i could be
and how useful i am.
Now i have sunshine and my greatest atributes can
finally shine through.
This hole intereaction with my ex wasn't to convince or show her something
it wasnt to make her feel bad. it wasnt to upset her. it wasnt to get her back.
It was to have a friendly meet up as adults and see if theres still any type of connection between us.
Which there was.
Right now your focusing on the negative of a situation
that was so great.
You know what - I wrote a reply with a nice rebuttal (starting with how I'm not the poster who asked you the initial question, and not the person you think I am..) - but thats ultimately irrelevant.
Congrats on being happy, don't let anyone take that away =).
Also, first time I've been called an "elder" at 27..=P.
I'm not being sarcastic at all, my young man. I'm actually amazed how fast your transformation took.
Personally, I repeat the same mistakes (for good measure) so i can really learn from it.
Transforming isn't hard if you know what to transform.
If you own a company and noone buys the products because the name is offensive.
Change the name.
Luckily i had my ex there to tell me the things she would like me to work out
during arguments ofcourse but nonetheless i took it for what it was and sought out
to really change for the better. Not just for my ex but for the next relationship i have with someone
whether it be platonic or romantic. Once i committed to being truthful with my flaws and working on them
my life got 10x more productive
I will sustain these changes my friend.
& it's not counterintuative because my
goal for these past 5 months has always been to
be with my ex again one day and share my success with her.
I don't need her.
I want her because she's a great person.
It shouldnt matter whether she's my ex or not
If i want to be with her and i love her that's all that
should matter
You have a lot of growing to do. This post and all your responses show huge amount of immaturity.
People don't change. They stay inherently the same. So, these changes are temporary at best. You may want her, in the end she won't want you. Some lessons must be learned the hard way. No other option, when everyone in this tread is telling you the same thing. Which is contrary to your stance. You might want to pay attention to what's being said.
You have a lot of growing to do. This post and all your responses show huge amount of immaturity.
People don't change. They stay inherently the same. So, these changes are temporary at best. You may want her, in the end she won't want you. Some lessons must be learned the hard way. No other option, when everyone in this tread is telling you the same thing. Which is contrary to your stance. You might want to pay attention to what's being said.
Eh people do change. Too bad it's for the worse, at least it has been that way in my case.
Dude, I'm happy you're getting some, but please leave the graphic details out, they really aren't necessary.
(but kudos, you have succeeded in breaking it down in Kindergarten terms (and spelling)).
I am happy for you, but I think what others are trying to caution you on is to not be lulled into a false security. It's great that you're happy, but a lot of things are not adding up here, and you could be setting yourself up for future pain. Not to call you young, or immature, or anything like that, but some of us are older, and have been through a lot. We're just trying to encourage you to remain optimistic, but CAUTIOUSLY optimistic. It's for your own good.
With that said, good luck, and I hope everyone's concerns turn out to be unwarranted.
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