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Do you believe that a married man or woman has an obligation to try really hard to look their best for their partners? For example, not letting themselves go, exercising/dieting regularly, and wearing attractive clothes instead of trying to look like a slob (sweatpants and baggy shirts)?
God, I hope not. I like being slobby. It makes dressing up all that more special. Right now I'm in yoga pants and an oversized tshirt and I wouldn't have it any other way.
God, I hope not. I like being slobby. It makes dressing up all that more special. Right now I'm in yoga pants and an oversized tshirt and I wouldn't have it any other way.
It's only 'slobby' if you're not attractive. An attractive woman can wear yoga pants and a big tshirt with no makeup and her hair in a messy bun and she's fine.
An unattractive or overweight woman? No, she's being a slob even if she's in the exact same outfit.
So I think it has more to do with relative attractiveness than what they're actually wearing.
God, I hope not. I like being slobby. It makes dressing up all that more special. Right now I'm in yoga pants and an oversized tshirt and I wouldn't have it any other way.
It's only 'slobby' if you're not attractive. An attractive woman can wear yoga pants and a big tshirt with no makeup and her hair in a messy bun and she's fine.
An unattractive or overweight woman? No, she's being a slob even if she's in the exact same outfit.
So I think it has more to do with relative attractiveness than what they're actually wearing.
A WOMAN THAT WORKS OUT......IS A SEXY WOMAN. Get to it ladies.
Even if they're overweight? Yes, you can be overweight and still work out. I have a friend that regularly runs marathons and she's a good 50 lbs overweight but in better shape than almost anyone else I know.
Even if they're overweight? Yes, you can be overweight and still work out. I have a friend that regularly runs marathons and she's a good 50 lbs overweight but in better shape than almost anyone else I know.
Medically overweight women can look good if they have the right proportions. 50 lb may be too much though.
Medically overweight women can look good if they have the right proportions. 50 lb may be too much though.
But but...what about all the guys that say they don't want an overweight woman because they're not 'healthy'? Her doctor says she's perfectly healthy and she could outrun most of the guys on this forum I'm sure.
But no, they'll choose the thin woman who smokes and drinks because she 'looks' healthy.
Eh, like what you like. Just don't make excuses for it.
Nobody is obligated to do anything BUT if you start to look like Jabba the Hutt and dress like The People of Walmart, don't be shocked if your spouse loses interest.
In my opinion only if there's also the obligation to try really hard to act their best for their partners aka do the same things they did before such as if the guy was really romantic then it's suited for him to stay really romantic.
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