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You hear about nice guys finishing last all the time. But it seems that nice girls also come up short.
Around men, sometimes I like to do a little experiment. When I act like a b*tch and play the coy, sexy, "I'm better than you" game, guys respond to that immediately. But if I'm myself - easy-going, kind, approachable, not exaggerating my sexuality - guys seem bored. It's like they prefer me to be an inaccessible object, not a real person.
What I don't understand is, don't men realize that no matter how hard-to-get a woman acts, no matter how much of "prize to be won" they make her out to be, at the end of the day she is just a person with faults and flaws like the rest of humanity? Don't they realize that the "game" might be fun for a while, but in the long run it's a truly toxic way of relating? I've found that so many guys are stuck in "hot chick" mode - meaning all they want to do is lust after a pretty girl, but when it comes to actually being real with her, they run.
It baffles me how all people seem to be concerned about is image, no matter what is actually behind the image. Substance no longer counts.
Uh, maybe I'm in the minority but I'm a guy who adores the "easy-going, kind, approachable" kind of woman.
Who the heck wants to chase a b*tch regardless of how hot she is?
I purposely look for women who are down to earth, as an engineer, pilot and mechanic I am super busy. I also love women and sex but don't have time to play games. I have always been into women who don't play games but I have never been on the market that long when I was looking, I don't know if not responding to messages is part of the game but I got a lot of that online so I hope to never be back in the dating game ever again.
I dread potentially having to date again more than public speaking.
I personally think doing what you are doing is childish, and for me at least, I wouldn't have anything to do woman that was a " bytch" to me... I swear.... what is the appeal really???
I've never seen or heard of any guy who thinks women that are bytcher are somehow "hotter".....
You hear about nice guys finishing last all the time. But it seems that nice girls also come up short.
Around men, sometimes I like to do a little experiment. When I act like a b*tch and play the coy, sexy, "I'm better than you" game, guys respond to that immediately. But if I'm myself - easy-going, kind, approachable, not exaggerating my sexuality - guys seem bored. It's like they prefer me to be an inaccessible object, not a real person.
What I don't understand is, don't men realize that no matter how hard-to-get a woman acts, no matter how much of "prize to be won" they make her out to be, at the end of the day she is just a person with faults and flaws like the rest of humanity? Don't they realize that the "game" might be fun for a while, but in the long run it's a truly toxic way of relating? I've found that so many guys are stuck in "hot chick" mode - meaning all they want to do is lust after a pretty girl, but when it comes to actually being real with her, they run.
It baffles me how all people seem to be concerned about is image, no matter what is actually behind the image. Substance no longer counts.
Keep on with your "game" or "experiment" and you may not be able to distinguish the difference between "real" and "fake."
You hear about nice guys finishing last all the time. But it seems that nice girls also come up short.
Around men, sometimes I like to do a little experiment. When I act like a b*tch and play the coy, sexy, "I'm better than you" game, guys respond to that immediately. But if I'm myself - easy-going, kind, approachable, not exaggerating my sexuality - guys seem bored. It's like they prefer me to be an inaccessible object, not a real person.
What I don't understand is, don't men realize that no matter how hard-to-get a woman acts, no matter how much of "prize to be won" they make her out to be, at the end of the day she is just a person with faults and flaws like the rest of humanity? Don't they realize that the "game" might be fun for a while, but in the long run it's a truly toxic way of relating? I've found that so many guys are stuck in "hot chick" mode - meaning all they want to do is lust after a pretty girl, but when it comes to actually being real with her, they run.
It baffles me how all people seem to be concerned about is image, no matter what is actually behind the image. Substance no longer counts.
Don't go after superficial people.
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