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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by PI2070
Breaking the law isn't what I would call honest. Neither is assistance to the drug trade.....or various other criminal acts that go with hookers and their pimps.
He could even find himself "rolled" or killed if he isn't careful.
Prostitution is like speeding or recreational drug use, unlawful but a lot more do it who don't get caught for it. I personally think it should be legal and regulated.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by JetJockey
I see no problems with a man visiting a prostitute. I would prefer not to date a man that frequented prostitutes, but I'm sure there are women out there who don't care. At least in that case it's consensual and both parties know exactly what they're getting into. I would hope that Guy A would have the decency to tell romantic partners about his past though, preferably before engaging in sex.
For Guy B... not cool. He's manipulating and harming others. Just...no.
I wonder how you feel about women with the same attitude though? What if a woman wants to experiences and have sex with as many partners as possible before settling down?
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Originally Posted by Davros
Guy B is worse. But, yeah, Guy A better tell any sex partners he has in the future (prior to having sex with them) that he's been to prostitutes ... or else he becomes worse (because prostitutes have a high rate of STDs).
I'd personally place any history with prostitutes under don't ask, don't tell as long as my STD tests come back clean.
Guy A wants to sleep with a variety of women, but hates lying to them so decides to just pay for it to avoid time, drama, and the lies.
Guy B wants to sleep with a variety of women and doesn't care what he says in order to sleep with various women. It's all about sex. He makes up lies about his life in order to create attraction and pretends to want relationships and once he sleeps with them he moves on to the next conquest.
Both men are equal in looks, financial status, education, social status, age, and both have no trouble getting into relationships but both just want to have as much sex as they can with different women before they settle down.
Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
I would say what's worse is the situation of Guy A but not Guy A as a person. If he's paying for some action that can get pricey. Now Guy B is just sprinkling game, he on some playboy pimpin type of deal.
The one sleeping with prostitutes is doing no harm, really. Having said that, is it really so difficult to find a woman who's also only interested in sex?
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by asphyxia
The one sleeping with prostitutes is doing no harm, really. Having said that, is it really so difficult to find a woman who's also only interested in sex?
If it were that easy, there would not be much a market for prostitution wouldn't ya think?
Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
Seems to be a no brainer to me. One guy is engaged in lying and dishonesty while the other guy is engaged in something I see no reason to consider immoral - the exchange of sexual services for money.
Lying to deceive is much worse. Prostitution is not mentioned in the Ten Commandments. Lying is. Adultery is also there, so going to a prostitute while you're married is absolutely no good. Prostitution is cited many times in the Bible, and it is clearly a sinful activity, but it is not condemned as strongly as adultery or homosexual acts.
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