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Old 06-16-2013, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Breaking the law isn't what I would call honest. Neither is assistance to the drug trade.....or various other criminal acts that go with hookers and their pimps.

He could even find himself "rolled" or killed if he isn't careful.
Prostitution is like speeding or recreational drug use, unlawful but a lot more do it who don't get caught for it. I personally think it should be legal and regulated.
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Old 06-16-2013, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I see no problems with a man visiting a prostitute. I would prefer not to date a man that frequented prostitutes, but I'm sure there are women out there who don't care. At least in that case it's consensual and both parties know exactly what they're getting into. I would hope that Guy A would have the decency to tell romantic partners about his past though, preferably before engaging in sex.

For Guy B... not cool. He's manipulating and harming others. Just...no.

I wonder how you feel about women with the same attitude though? What if a woman wants to experiences and have sex with as many partners as possible before settling down?
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Guy B is worse. But, yeah, Guy A better tell any sex partners he has in the future (prior to having sex with them) that he's been to prostitutes ... or else he becomes worse (because prostitutes have a high rate of STDs).
I'd personally place any history with prostitutes under don't ask, don't tell as long as my STD tests come back clean.
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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It all depends on if you're talking about a prostitute in Detroit? Or a prostitute in Nevada. I'll answer assuming it's Nevada.

Guy A has more money, but he's lonelier yet stress free.

Guy B has STDs and a full social calendar, but he'll probably die earlier due to the stress of lying and arguing with the women he's jilting.

I'll opt for A
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:11 AM
 
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Here are two situations.

Guy A wants to sleep with a variety of women, but hates lying to them so decides to just pay for it to avoid time, drama, and the lies.

Guy B wants to sleep with a variety of women and doesn't care what he says in order to sleep with various women. It's all about sex. He makes up lies about his life in order to create attraction and pretends to want relationships and once he sleeps with them he moves on to the next conquest.

Both men are equal in looks, financial status, education, social status, age, and both have no trouble getting into relationships but both just want to have as much sex as they can with different women before they settle down.

Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
I would say what's worse is the situation of Guy A but not Guy A as a person. If he's paying for some action that can get pricey. Now Guy B is just sprinkling game, he on some playboy pimpin type of deal.
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Oh good grief, isn't there something you need to be doing outside in the yard away from the computer?

Does it matter what others think about how you live your life? Do what you want, it is your life, your decision, your morals, your health, your money.

Good point. I was going to trim my hedge, but it started to rain hard and hasn't stopped.

I've been looking at this thread for 10 minutes and I can't find anything stupid enough to do it justice.
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Old 06-16-2013, 03:48 PM
 
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The one sleeping with prostitutes is doing no harm, really. Having said that, is it really so difficult to find a woman who's also only interested in sex?
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Old 06-16-2013, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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The one sleeping with prostitutes is doing no harm, really. Having said that, is it really so difficult to find a woman who's also only interested in sex?
If it were that easy, there would not be much a market for prostitution wouldn't ya think?
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Old 06-16-2013, 04:04 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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If your friend (right) is "sleeping" with prostitutes he doesn't seem to understand the concept.
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Old 06-17-2013, 02:48 AM
 
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Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
Seems to be a no brainer to me. One guy is engaged in lying and dishonesty while the other guy is engaged in something I see no reason to consider immoral - the exchange of sexual services for money.
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Old 06-17-2013, 02:59 AM
 
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Lying to deceive is much worse. Prostitution is not mentioned in the Ten Commandments. Lying is. Adultery is also there, so going to a prostitute while you're married is absolutely no good. Prostitution is cited many times in the Bible, and it is clearly a sinful activity, but it is not condemned as strongly as adultery or homosexual acts.
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