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Old 06-15-2013, 09:36 AM
 
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Here are two situations.

Guy A wants to sleep with a variety of women, but hates lying to them so decides to just pay for it to avoid time, drama, and the lies.

Guy B wants to sleep with a variety of women and doesn't care what he says in order to sleep with various women. It's all about sex. He makes up lies about his life in order to create attraction and pretends to want relationships and once he sleeps with them he moves on to the next conquest.

Both men are equal in looks, financial status, education, social status, age, and both have no trouble getting into relationships but both just want to have as much sex as they can with different women before they settle down.

Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?

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Old 06-15-2013, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I cant imagine someone having a difficult time knowing the difference.
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Old 06-15-2013, 09:58 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This is like asking "would you rather be boiled in oil, or just stuck in a burning building to burn alive?"

There is no good answer in my opinion.
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Old 06-15-2013, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Both are gross.
You're not an animal.
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Old 06-15-2013, 10:07 AM
 
Location: NY
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Where is guy C who just frequents the bars, or finds some swingers clubs?
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Old 06-15-2013, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I see no problems with a man visiting a prostitute. I would prefer not to date a man that frequented prostitutes, but I'm sure there are women out there who don't care. At least in that case it's consensual and both parties know exactly what they're getting into. I would hope that Guy A would have the decency to tell romantic partners about his past though, preferably before engaging in sex.

For Guy B... not cool. He's manipulating and harming others. Just...no.

I wonder how you feel about women with the same attitude though? What if a woman wants to experiences and have sex with as many partners as possible before settling down?
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Old 06-15-2013, 10:44 AM
 
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Very easy to untangle that one: one is honest. The other is not. Honesty always trumps deception.
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Old 06-15-2013, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Guy A=smart guy.
Guy B = jerk
Guy A= risky healthwise
Guy B= risky healthwise
Guy A= More honest about his intentions
Guy B= Big time lier
Buy B =worse in my opinion
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Old 06-15-2013, 11:15 AM
 
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Guy B is worse. But, yeah, Guy A better tell any sex partners he has in the future (prior to having sex with them) that he's been to prostitutes ... or else he becomes worse (because prostitutes have a high rate of STDs).

The worst is people who have STD's or likely have STD's but don't care if they give someone else an STD. That's just sick and pathetic, man.
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Old 06-15-2013, 11:23 AM
 
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Guy A is worse.

Guy B is every man on the football or baseball field. lol

Guy B is also the hot guy who is usally a boss and has unlimited female employees soliciting him at random as well. He's got the looks, he's got the threads, he's got the money, he's got "power".

Trouble is he often forgets about his wife at home.

Even so, he isn't a walking timebomb as the Guy A who visits hookers.
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