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Old 03-01-2010, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Personally, I think it's relative.

You can be in a dead end marriage for years & just not have the guts to leave....You can be in the process of divorce & finally realize that the biggest weight in your life is being removed....

It's so totally individual; do what makes you happy & have no regrets.
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Old 03-02-2010, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Tha 6th Bourough
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i been there, done that, and i suggest drop it and move foward.....sometimes married people who are struggling with their partner just wanna feel cared about but when that goes away they realize it wasnt you they cared for it was the feeling they had....and you will get hurt...happened twice to me
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Old 03-02-2010, 07:41 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Maybe I just got lucky or something. The current wife and I started dating before either of our divorces were final. YMMV of course as this can indeed be treacherous territory... but it worked for us. I suppose it helped in our case that we were both 100% confident we weren't going back to our respective estranged spouses.
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