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Old 06-16-2013, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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You're so sensible, burgler.
Sarcasm?

I'm just saying what I'd think
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:21 PM
 
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Sarcasm?

I'm just saying what I'd think
No, I was being serious.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:21 PM
 
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I actually find honesty or people that freely express their emotions..refreshing. I wouldnt interpret it literary as that expression just means she regrets not acting on an impulse back then but I will also not do anything to encourage any sexual attention/advance.

No need to judge as the only difference between the woman and someone that feels that way but is too bashful to say anything is confidence.
True, and what if the guy was single and maybe interested?

That would make nearly any man except a damn fool back up a step or two and take notice.

I know I would. LOL
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:24 PM
 
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True, and what if the guy was single and maybe interested?

That would make nearly any man except a damn fool back up a step or two and take notice.

I know I would. LOL
The fact of the matter is that he lives in another state many miles away so telling him would be pointless. Otherwise, I might.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:32 PM
 
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The fact of the matter is that he lives in another state many miles away so telling him would be pointless. Otherwise, I might.
It's never pointless dear. You would make that poor *****rds day.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:34 PM
 
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The fact of the matter is that he lives in another state many miles away so telling him would be pointless. Otherwise, I might.
So the alternative is not saying anything and passing up what could potentially be the beginning of a sound relationship?

If you express your feelings and he turns you down, that door closes and you wouldnt be sitting around wondering what could have been. But there is a pretty good chance that he could be interested in pursuing a relationship.......thats if you are certain there is an attraction/spark/chemistry between the two of you. I've seen marriages built on what was then considered unconventional ways of approaching the opposite sex.

I'd say go for...but be tactful in the delivery. You dont want to sound desperate no matter the circumstance...

Just my 2 cents - goodluck
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:40 PM
 
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It's never pointless dear. You would make that poor *****rds day.
I don't want to blow up his ego. I just truly regret for myself that certain things didn't occur.

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So the alternative is not saying anything and passing up what could potentially be the beginning of a sound relationship?
No, it's pretty much never going to happen, but from time to time, I still think about it and get upset. I'll just use it as a lesson learned and try not to make the same mistake in the future.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:46 PM
 
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I don't want to blow up his ego. I just truly regret for myself that certain things didn't occur.


No, it's pretty much never going to happen, but from time to time, I still think about it and get upset. I'll just use it as a lesson learned and try not to make the same mistake in the future.
It won't blow up many mens egos. It just makes him feel good. Some guys need something like that to get them along and through. Maybe he just lost his dog or cat? Maybe he just got in a wreck and his car is screwed?

Don't be affraid to express yourself. Only a total asshat of a man would take advantage of it.

Most would be flattered and blush.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:56 PM
 
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It won't blow up many mens egos. It just makes him feel good. Some guys need something like that to get them along and through. Maybe he just lost his dog or cat? Maybe he just got in a wreck and his car is screwed?
Oh, I'm sure he's doing just fine.
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Old 06-16-2013, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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It won't blow up many mens egos. It just makes him feel good. Some guys need something like that to get them along and through. Maybe he just lost his dog or cat? Maybe he just got in a wreck and his car is screwed?

Don't be affraid to express yourself. Only a total asshat of a man would take advantage of it.

Most would be flattered and blush.
One of the many reasons I would never tell the guy, is because it would be such a double standard. I would absolutely never want a man to say something like that to me. I couldn't very well treat a man in a way I wouldn't want to be treated.
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