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So i know the other day i made this post about my Ex but i was very stubborn about taking your tough love advice.
Welp Today is the worst day of my life. I don't feel like i deserve to exist on this planet. I know it sounds pathetic but i'm so lost.
I confessed to my Ex about how i feel and got a unpleasent suprise.
All those "signs" i thought she was giving me was just her way of being friendly.
She only wanted to make sure i was ok.
She does not want a relationship, she wants nothing to do with me in a romantic way.
Those are her words.
She told me she is dating and sleeping with other men.
OMG that hurt so bad because i've been holding myself for her( Not like i have women lined up but ya)
She only wanted a friendship that's it and that's all.
She told me after what i put her through there's no way shed give me another chance.
She said she's been over me for a while now.
GOD i feel so dumb and weak.
I hate myself for thinking she still loved me.
Oh ya and she said " I don't Love you anymore"
You have no idea how much that hurt.
As i sat on the phone i realized i've truly lost her forever.
I don't know what to do.
I love her so much but it's to late now.
What do i do ?
How do i stay strong ?
Why would she do this to me ?
(I'm balling in tears as i write this)
I feel like i'm a horrible person and will never meet anyone.
I feel like i'm a failure.
Also i could tell she was with someone while we were talking on the phone.
I could hear someone laughing in the background ( Maybe her new boo)
God i know i sounded so pathetic, Trying to reason with her.
It gets better and easier. It just takes awhile. I would strongly suggest no further contact unless there are children involved. Otherwise it's done and over with. Time to look ahead, not back. It can be done.
Good luck!
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Oops! Never mind. Just read the other thread and came across this:
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Originally Posted by Mrblacksmith
You guys with over 1000 posts probably have no life.
You troll everyones thread and make them feel bad because misery loves company !
Since I have over 1,000 posts I must have no life, nothing to offer and be miserable.
Oh well!
Last edited by Curmudgeon; 06-16-2013 at 08:10 PM..
It gets better and easier. It just takes awhile. I would strongly suggest no further contact unless there are children involved. Otherwise it's done and over with. Time to look ahead, not back. It can be done.
Good luck!
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Edited to add:
Oops! Never mind. Just read the other thread and came across this:
Since I have over 1,000 posts I must have no life, nothing to offer and be miserable.
You're very welcome. It was a repeated refrain so there must be some conviction and belief behind it. Regardless, you passed over the advice I gave to zero-in on the wrist slap. Sorry, but that says a lot too.
You're very welcome. It was a repeated refrain so there must be some conviction and belief behind it. Regardless, you passed over the advice I gave to zero-in on the wrist slap. Sorry, but that says a lot too.
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