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Old 06-17-2013, 04:08 AM
 
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I have been talking to a girl on facebook. Im going to see her soon on vacation. Anyways i as talking to her and i had a spur of the moment idea and i quoted a song from the frankie and johnny film and i said to her ''it must be love'' followed by two hearts.
I was joking with her when i posted it obviously but i am attracted to her and she posted back another message just now saying ''do you love me''? How should i respond?
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:18 AM
 
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Don't joke like that over digital media. There's no room for nuance or humor in digital text, even with emoticons.

Tell her you don't love her yet because you don't know her, and that you look forward to getting to know her. Then apologize profusely for making a joke that was so misleading and confusing.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:21 AM
 
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thanks. i do like her though. is there a funnier way that i can answer her to make her laugh about it?
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:22 AM
 
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You should answer "I was just being romantic" and then change the subject.

No need to get heavy or anything, IMO. Definitely don't try to overexplain it.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:24 AM
 
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i was going to write back something sarcastic like ''yes, dear. truly, madly, deeply! I think you love me too ''
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:38 AM
 
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I have been talking to a girl on facebook. Im going to see her soon on vacation. Anyways i as talking to her and i had a spur of the moment idea and i quoted a song from the frankie and johnny film and i said to her ''it must be love'' followed by two hearts.
I was joking with her when i posted it obviously but i am attracted to her and she posted back another message just now saying ''do you love me''? How should i respond?
First, are you sure that she was not joking too?
Second, don't say her 'That was just a joke' or 'I do this joke with every girl I talk to'.
You can answer her something like 'My heart loves you, and I hope my eyes will love you when I will see you'.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:41 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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say "oops, sorry, it was meant for another girl I'm chatting with" Lol
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:42 AM
 
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First, are you sure that she was not joking too?
Second, don't say her 'That was just a joke' or 'I do this joke with every girl I talk to'.
You can answer her something like 'My heart loves you, and I hope my eyes will love you when I will see you'.
She didnt seem like she was joking. I have seen her before in person. Wow, what she was wearing in the gym, i could see through her sweatpants, it made my jaw drop and when i got home Mod cut: Not PG-13. - so yeah- im attracted to her, hehe.
She actually seems much easier to talk to and more likeable online, in person she has a moody looking face sometimes and it somewhat makes it seem awkward to approach her and less attractive, so yeah.

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Old 06-17-2013, 05:42 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She didnt seem like she was joking. I have seen her before in person. Wow, what she was wearing in the gym, i could see through her sweatpants, it made my jaw drop and when i got home Mod cut: Orphaned. - so yeah- im attracted to her, hehe.
She actually seems much easier to talk to and more likeable online, in person she has a moody looking face sometimes and it somewhat makes it seem awkward to approach her and less attractive, so yeah.
1) TMI

2) Just say, "Just kidding. I guess we'll see."

Orphaned.

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Old 06-17-2013, 06:16 AM
 
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She didnt seem like she was joking. I have seen her before in person. Wow, what she was wearing in the gym, i could see through her sweatpants, it made my jaw drop and when i got home i wanked over her immediately- so yeah- im attracted to her, hehe.
Yeah...this much you probably do NOT want to express via text.

Or...pretty much ever.
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