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Old 06-20-2013, 12:19 AM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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Please, let me encourage you to continue the escort thing so that you don't waste a real girl's precious time.
Escorts are real girls.

 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:23 AM
 
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A very weak counter. You suggested an advantage based on a premise that i pay for sex and you dont. Unfortunately for you, this isnt a parallel world. Paying women has much more reward than getting it free under these terms. You cannot make the same claim as most guys wouldnt get attached anyway. So as many users have already stated, it really makes no difference for me.

Orphaned.
It's not a very weak counter as I did not suggest anything like that you projected that. Stating our actions aren't the same as you claimed /= suggesting I have an advantage.

I did not state/suggest/mention/imply I have an advantage I did state that our actions aren't the same as you claimed since for you to be reciprocating to the same effect you'd have to be doing the same thing as me- multi-dating and dumping for replacements.

As for I cannot make the same claim of it being much more rewarding. Yes I can since most gals don't orgasm during sex it'd likely be much more rewarding for me to have a paid partner as he'd likely have way more motivation to have me orgasm than a free partner as well as there would probably be less of a rape risk than with a free partner.

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Old 06-20-2013, 12:25 AM
 
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We really are but she refuses to accept it. perhaps because its implications are different toward a woman than a man. Works for my advantage =)
I'm not refusing to accept it in fact I stated I can see why and that we have the same world view. We have the same world view however our actions are not the same. Just because we're both getting what we want doesn't mean our actions are the same no different than just because both are intercourse doesn't mean rape and consensual sex are the same.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:26 AM
 
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When I stated he's not reciprocating to the same I meant that he's not doing the same as me. He's getting what he wants however that doesn't make his actions the same as mine since for it to be the same he'd have to be multi-dating gals then dumping them for replacements.


Interesting I thought your mindset was 'getting the same thing' with no regard to differences and masturbation and Orphaned.
Its not the same but its similar.

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Old 06-20-2013, 12:27 AM
 
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Its not the same but its similar.
Exactly what I've been stating. I'm unsure how other than personal issues/projections people got that stating it's not the same = stating I'm different or I have an advantage when nowhere do I do I even mention such.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:29 AM
 
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I'm not refusing to accept it in fact I stated I can see why and that we have the same world view. We have the same world view however our actions are not the same. Just because we're both getting what we want doesn't mean our actions are the same no different than just because both are intercourse doesn't mean rape and consensual sex are the same.

We're both getting what we want the way we want. atleast i know i am.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:37 AM
 
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Egh fun factor is subjective and not one I find applicable in this case as one can counter the fun factor is there is a 'real relationship' and it feels 'better' getting Snip. from a gal who desires it than a gal who is paid to do so.
If she is good at her job then it shouldn't be. IF she is not getting him off or doing what he wants then he can find a different one.

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Old 06-20-2013, 12:39 AM
 
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If she is good at her job then it shouldn't be.
This is why I state fun factor is subjective and suited not to be applicable in this case as her being good at her job will still be that it's a pretense and one could claim that real desire that one has no to little reason to doubt is more fun than false desire one knows is false and just good acting.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:40 AM
 
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We're both getting what we want the way we want. atleast i know i am.
Yep however it doesn't make our actions the same it does makes our results the same.

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hahaha i agree. Everybody wants sex.
Asexuals don't nor do I.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:41 AM
 
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This is why I state fun factor is subjective and suited not to be applicable in this case as her being good at her job will still be that it's a pretense and one could claim that real desire that one has no to little reason to doubt is more fun than false desire one knows is false and just good acting.
That's true, that is subjective, some people don't care and some people do. If you are someone who cares then escorts might not do it for them but if they have just as much fun either way then its not an issue.
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