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Originally Posted by houstan-dan
Where did she ever say that she even asked?
Maybe he's cheating on her and he doesn't want her to find out?
Maybe he's embarrassed by her and doesn't want to be seen in public with her?
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The bolded is always a possibility in cases of extreme jealousy and suspicion, like this. It would be easy for him to cheat, since he's the only one who leaves the house for any reason. He could be seeing someone when he goes grocery shopping or takes the car in for service, or whatever.
If he were embarrassed by her in public, they wouldn't have spent their first year together going out all the time (re-read first post). Clearly, he was into how she looked, or he wouldn't have made a move on her and become her bf. But now he only wants her to show her body at home, he doesn't want anyone else to see what her form looks like. He wants her all to himself, and doesn't want anyone even looking.
Either that, or after a year, he started an affair with someone, and became hysterically paranoid that she might do the same. Either way, she should get out of the relationship ASAP. It's not working, hasn't been working for years, and will not work in the future.
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